umm... I agree!?martianellieDecember 13 2005, 11:47:47 UTC
I think what probably confuses Samii, (Judging by my own experience) is that when you were going out you would talk about everything and be really open and honest. Now that you're not you do the brave face thing, (which I do understand now, and you're never going to change) but what it means is you come across as completely different to how you were when you were going out... You've got to understand that it's a bit of a headfuck and can make a girl doubt the value of what you had, wonder if it was the "real" you then, or now. It'll get easier for Samii and you do seem to be being pretty good with it generally (with a few slip ups that we wont mention) just maybe occasionally afford her the luxury of being completely genuine with her, you might be uncomfortable but you do care about her and it'll make her healing process much easier to handle because she'll know where she stands.
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As for me and Ed... I'm glad you approve and don't think it's weird *grins inanely*
Re: umm... I agree!?martianellieDecember 14 2005, 16:04:40 UTC
the you n ed thing if it becomes a thing is cool, as long as your careful with each other.
but yeah i know the me n sam stuff. n trying to fix my own life at the moment, which is completely in tatters, uni, money, relationships etc. gonna take alot of time out of xmas n fix myself. become somewhat a social hermet i think/
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As for me and Ed... I'm glad you approve and don't think it's weird *grins inanely*
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as long as your careful with each other.
but yeah i know the me n sam stuff.
n trying to fix my own life at the moment, which is completely in tatters, uni, money, relationships etc.
gonna take alot of time out of xmas n fix myself.
become somewhat a social hermet i think/
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