Oct 11, 2004 15:54
I'm ashamed of my cousin.
I never thought I would be ashamed of anyone, but I am of her. She's everything I'm against and seems to have no personality. Unfortunately when I was talking to someone that knows her, he said that he's noticed that. I don't want that reflected back to me because I'm not a slut, I don't do sluttish things and I don't associate with people that are slutty. Oops, I pretty much just called her a slut, it's not that she's a slut she just...seems to be a wanna be slut. I don't understand why people want to put their bodies out there and be taken advantage of. It's sad because they're the ones that are the most insecure with who they are. I feel pretty secure with who I am and all even though I do get freaked out some days. Bleh, I feel like now I'm acting like I know everything and I'm the perfect example of a human being, which I'm not. Back on the subject...I don't mind if people walk around half naked, if they're comfortable with that good for them, our bodies shouldn't be something we're ashamed of though I am ashamed of mine occasionally. However I think if you have two people, one who's flirting with everyone and swaying her hips as she walks I'm going to be quicker to call her a slut than someone who's in the exact same outfit with the exact same body shape and is just hanging back. To the point I don't think it's the clothes as much as how the person acts in the clothes that make them a slut. Ooh I just thought of a great example...if (I'm using mainly girls for examples but that doesn't mean a guy can't be a slut) anyways, if a girl wears a low cut shirt it can be sexy. However if a girl wears a low cut shirt squeezes her arms across so that she gets maximum cleavage and bends over in front of every guy possible, then it's slutty though it might be the same shirt. Gosh everything is making so much sense in my head right now. I love when this happens. Once again I have a thinking entry, good lord no one could know how happy this makes me. Now that people know what I consider a slut...eww..I just ate a little piece of chocolate off my sweatpants, that's kinda gross considering I'm not sure if it was from the chocolate I was eating. I think I'm going to go and do my biology I've been putting off. Write more later I'm sure. <3MW
bodies,
insecure,
thinking,
clothes,
slut,
cousin diana