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John and I had an argument and I told him he needed to look up passive-aggressive abuse. He did so today, and talked to me about it. He said that while he wished he could deny it, that's what he was doing. We have an appointment Friday with a marriage counselor (Jo--do you want to babysit Willow? No biggie if not) and we're going to look at what we want to do moving forward. I've accepted the possibility of divorce, but we want to stay together if we possibly can. I feel ready to talk this out and move forward. It's time for both of us to find happiness.