Passive-aggressive
If you are passive-aggressive, I don't respond well to you.
If you don't like that term, let me spell it out.
Constant rude haranguing, playing the martyr, whining about how awful your life is and that nobody cares, etc....and then when someone attempts to help you, but also kindly suggests that lashing out is maybe not the best form of behavior....and then you lash out against them in turn? That would be what I am talking about.
Negativity begets negativity. Stop it now.
EDIT: For teh record, I really do not like having to say goodbye to a friend. It happened, well, quite embarrassingly often when I was younger, and not so much in recent years. I am pretty forgiving and very patient. Possibly TOO patient!
But when someone is horrible and rude and it all seems to be coming from a place of jealousy and hatred....I just don't see why I should have to put up with constant streams of negativity. And yeah, if you are rude, and if you are being a b$$ch, yes, I will call you on that. And no, I don't see why *I* should have to apologize when you're the one who was being rude. Especially when I kept asking you politely to not be rude.
Anyway. I'm done.
If you don't like that term, let me spell it out.
Constant rude haranguing, playing the martyr, whining about how awful your life is and that nobody cares, etc....and then when someone attempts to help you, but also kindly suggests that lashing out is maybe not the best form of behavior....and then you lash out against them in turn? That would be what I am talking about.
Negativity begets negativity. Stop it now.
EDIT: For teh record, I really do not like having to say goodbye to a friend. It happened, well, quite embarrassingly often when I was younger, and not so much in recent years. I am pretty forgiving and very patient. Possibly TOO patient!
But when someone is horrible and rude and it all seems to be coming from a place of jealousy and hatred....I just don't see why I should have to put up with constant streams of negativity. And yeah, if you are rude, and if you are being a b$$ch, yes, I will call you on that. And no, I don't see why *I* should have to apologize when you're the one who was being rude. Especially when I kept asking you politely to not be rude.
Anyway. I'm done.