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so let me tell you about my week real fast and then about my amazing day yesterday.
joey went home monday and i had to work a lot, though i called for help and took wednesday and thursday off at the corner store. i had to work 3 nights in a row at barnes and noble. monday was long and very slow. i talked to joey a bit when i got home from b&n and then went to bed, but didn't sleep well at all. tuesday was also long and very slow. i don't know which day was worse, although i actually had a bit of work to do at b&n. i hadn't really talked to joey much that day and when i got home i was texting him a bit and asked what he was doing and then he told me he was drinking with his friends and that's when he stopped making sense. i had to ask him three times what TIME he was coming home the next day because he just kept saying yes, he was coming home. then a little while later he texted me a bit more and i texted back, but he stopped replying, so i just gave up on him.
i was upset that he hadn't told me he was drinking with his friends before they started because it was kind of like: oh, i'll tell you because you asked. and then by time i asked, he was already super drunk. i wanted to go out and do something so he would know how it feels, but everyone was busy. so i basically started drinking by myself. oops. see, he always wants me to tell him what i'm doing when we're not together, but he doesn't have to do the same thing? that's stupid. i wanted him to have fun and i felt like maybe i didn't have a reason to be upset, so i didn't say anything. i just got super upset and then mad at myself for being upset and drank more. i ended up getting pretty tipsy and then just went to bed at like one.
the next day i still felt crappy and then i felt crappy from drinking the night before and i was still upset so i wasn't really excited about joey coming home either. then he texted me around 11 apologizing and saying his friends had hidden his phone and he just found it. well that made me feel like an idiot because they obviously hid it because he was texting me. great. so then i felt worse and he called me from a rest stop asking why i was upset and we talked a bit and i just felt bad the whole day, pretty much. he also told me that he went to see district 9 with his friend from home, even though we had been planning on seeing it together. uggggh. when he got home we kind of just sat around and watched tv. then i had to work at b&n and it was super busy because it was an RA and OA discount night, so at least i had something to do.
now comes the good part...
thursday was a good day. a very good day. i'd say it was near perfect. we woke up and cuddled for a bit. then we got dressed and went to the zoo. i love the zoo. we had a lot of fun and talked about all the animals we wanted to adopt as pets (all of them). haha. it was nice out, not too hot and not too cold. joey got SUPER excited about the penguins. it was adorable and he kept asking the lady if he could feed them. haha. she just ignored him. we spent about 2 hours there and then had to leave because we had an appointment for massages.
i got him a gift card for a duo massage at this spa in pittsford for his birthday. basically, we each get massages in the same room, side by side. it was at the spa delmonte, so it was really really nice. when we got there, we had to separate into our different locker rooms and lounges. i went in, got undressed, put my robe on, and just hung out in the lounge and read a magazine with an article about spicing up your sex life. hahaha. later i found out he sat in the sauna and ate an apple. what a dork. =)
then we had the massages and it was pretty amazing. it was 50 minutes, but it went by so fast. i could get a massage all day everyday. afterwards, joey told me he was going to take a long shower and i told him i wasn't, but then i got back to the lounge and got in the shower to get some of the lotion off and there were 4 showers heads on the side walls that hit you from the left and right and i didn't want to get out. it was glorious. i need a shower like that. then i got dressed and made some tea, which was amazing, and fixed my hair with a straightener they have there. then joey yelled at me to hurry up because he was ready and i chugged my tea and left. i guess he took a quick shower because i said i wasn't going to and he had been waiting. haha. oops.
then we went and got dinner at the cheesecake factory. it was very yummy. we got cheesecake to go because we were both too full, but we still haven't eaten it yet. when we got home we "relaxed," if you know what i mean. =P then we showered again and just kinda laid around naked forever. it was totally random, but very nice. i think doing new things together really made us connect again and i kind of feel like i feel in love all over again. (as cheesy and lame as that sounds.) i never wanted to get up, but we had planned on going to see a movie too, so eventually we had to get up and get dressed again.
first, however, we went to victoria's secret and i bought my first thing ever from there (and spent way too much money) and it is adorable. we got to the movie a little late, but before it started, thankfully. we saw district 9, even though joey had seen it already. it was good. disgusting at some parts, but good. very solid overall. i didn't like it as much because it was so action oriented, but that's just personal taste.
when we got home we just hung out on the couch for a while and then went to bed because joey said he was very tired.
overall, it was a fucking amazing day. i don't think it could have been any better.
i wish it had never ended.
joey went home monday and i had to work a lot, though i called for help and took wednesday and thursday off at the corner store. i had to work 3 nights in a row at barnes and noble. monday was long and very slow. i talked to joey a bit when i got home from b&n and then went to bed, but didn't sleep well at all. tuesday was also long and very slow. i don't know which day was worse, although i actually had a bit of work to do at b&n. i hadn't really talked to joey much that day and when i got home i was texting him a bit and asked what he was doing and then he told me he was drinking with his friends and that's when he stopped making sense. i had to ask him three times what TIME he was coming home the next day because he just kept saying yes, he was coming home. then a little while later he texted me a bit more and i texted back, but he stopped replying, so i just gave up on him.
i was upset that he hadn't told me he was drinking with his friends before they started because it was kind of like: oh, i'll tell you because you asked. and then by time i asked, he was already super drunk. i wanted to go out and do something so he would know how it feels, but everyone was busy. so i basically started drinking by myself. oops. see, he always wants me to tell him what i'm doing when we're not together, but he doesn't have to do the same thing? that's stupid. i wanted him to have fun and i felt like maybe i didn't have a reason to be upset, so i didn't say anything. i just got super upset and then mad at myself for being upset and drank more. i ended up getting pretty tipsy and then just went to bed at like one.
the next day i still felt crappy and then i felt crappy from drinking the night before and i was still upset so i wasn't really excited about joey coming home either. then he texted me around 11 apologizing and saying his friends had hidden his phone and he just found it. well that made me feel like an idiot because they obviously hid it because he was texting me. great. so then i felt worse and he called me from a rest stop asking why i was upset and we talked a bit and i just felt bad the whole day, pretty much. he also told me that he went to see district 9 with his friend from home, even though we had been planning on seeing it together. uggggh. when he got home we kind of just sat around and watched tv. then i had to work at b&n and it was super busy because it was an RA and OA discount night, so at least i had something to do.
now comes the good part...
thursday was a good day. a very good day. i'd say it was near perfect. we woke up and cuddled for a bit. then we got dressed and went to the zoo. i love the zoo. we had a lot of fun and talked about all the animals we wanted to adopt as pets (all of them). haha. it was nice out, not too hot and not too cold. joey got SUPER excited about the penguins. it was adorable and he kept asking the lady if he could feed them. haha. she just ignored him. we spent about 2 hours there and then had to leave because we had an appointment for massages.
i got him a gift card for a duo massage at this spa in pittsford for his birthday. basically, we each get massages in the same room, side by side. it was at the spa delmonte, so it was really really nice. when we got there, we had to separate into our different locker rooms and lounges. i went in, got undressed, put my robe on, and just hung out in the lounge and read a magazine with an article about spicing up your sex life. hahaha. later i found out he sat in the sauna and ate an apple. what a dork. =)
then we had the massages and it was pretty amazing. it was 50 minutes, but it went by so fast. i could get a massage all day everyday. afterwards, joey told me he was going to take a long shower and i told him i wasn't, but then i got back to the lounge and got in the shower to get some of the lotion off and there were 4 showers heads on the side walls that hit you from the left and right and i didn't want to get out. it was glorious. i need a shower like that. then i got dressed and made some tea, which was amazing, and fixed my hair with a straightener they have there. then joey yelled at me to hurry up because he was ready and i chugged my tea and left. i guess he took a quick shower because i said i wasn't going to and he had been waiting. haha. oops.
then we went and got dinner at the cheesecake factory. it was very yummy. we got cheesecake to go because we were both too full, but we still haven't eaten it yet. when we got home we "relaxed," if you know what i mean. =P then we showered again and just kinda laid around naked forever. it was totally random, but very nice. i think doing new things together really made us connect again and i kind of feel like i feel in love all over again. (as cheesy and lame as that sounds.) i never wanted to get up, but we had planned on going to see a movie too, so eventually we had to get up and get dressed again.
first, however, we went to victoria's secret and i bought my first thing ever from there (and spent way too much money) and it is adorable. we got to the movie a little late, but before it started, thankfully. we saw district 9, even though joey had seen it already. it was good. disgusting at some parts, but good. very solid overall. i didn't like it as much because it was so action oriented, but that's just personal taste.
when we got home we just hung out on the couch for a while and then went to bed because joey said he was very tired.
overall, it was a fucking amazing day. i don't think it could have been any better.
i wish it had never ended.