weekend update
so........how is everyone?
My weekend was fantastic. Kate and I went to a gay bar in CT....the grassy knole...no that's not it. Brass balls?....nope the brassy rale? I don't remember. Anyway it was amazing. Instead of typing about it in a paragraph I'll just list random highlights.
Dancing with Kate and having the rican brothers cheering us on as I slapped her ass.
Having lipstick kisses on my neck most of the night from a hot drag queen.
Having Ms. queen lick whipcream off my chest three times.
Getting totally waisted on long island iced tea.
Having Kate's ex Moriah overhear what I wanted to drink and then buying me one....whatever. Cheers bitch.
When Moriah asked me to dance on the dance floor me laughing and telling her to ask Kate and Kate dissing her. Hilarious. "Oh it's like that?"..........LOL.
Getting in free.
Meeting our fun gay men.
Getting slapped on my ass with a belt by one of them.
Meeting Kate's babysitter when she was little who is also the same age as me. OUCH!
Getting free jello shots.
Kate being bombarded and hit on by a butt ugly thug girl.
Good times. Anyway, church was amazing on Sunday. I spotted a movie star while in church. The minister at Kate's church is gay and I was looking at her partner and I recognized her at once. She played the mom in the lesbian film The Incredible Adventured of Two Girls In Love. I asked Kate's mom what her name was, and low and behold, sure enough....it was her. Amazing. Kate nearly shit.
While in church they have this moment when this guy will play something really nice on the piano while everyone meditates and relaxes their eyes and is thankful for what they have in their life. Kate was sitting across the room exactly opposite from me. She had to because her choir sang that day. I looked at her. Her head was down with her eyes closed. I thought that's my future right there. I felt so thankful and lucky to have her in my life. Later on when we were dropping off her sister at camp, on the way walking back to the car Kate stopped me underneath a tree and said "This may sound really corny but while in church today when the man was playing the piano, I looked across the room at you and I saw my future."
Wow. Love you nani.
Me, Kate and Brit that night watched Witches of Eastwick. Boy did that movie take a LEFT turn at the end. It was hilarious watching it with Kate. I can't remember what she said but she made me crack up for about an hour. I realized I love watching movies with her. She always has something hilarious to say to make fun of the film if it sucks or just comment on something that is happening during the film. She would be such a great movie critic. A funny one.
Kate took me crabbing!!!!! It was so awesome. I had never heard of it before. She told me you get hooks, and lure them in with hotdogs as bate.....I did not believe it for a second. LOL. But um like 50 crabs later surrounding are hooks and hotdogs. lol. We pretty much gave all the crabs a feast. Everytime we looked in the water a crab was chilling eating a piece of hotdog. At one point I looked over on the rock and asked Kate what she was doing and she said "feeding the baby".....LOL. She was feeding the a tiny baby crab a hotdog on the rock because she said the others would bully him. I love nani.
On th way to CT, I saw my homeless friend again. He has been outside standing on the corner all day. I gave him ten bucks while at the red light and asked him if he had had anything to eat. He said he was going to go get something with the money I gave him. I told him to save it and asked him what he wanted. I went and got him burger king, and parked and walked across the highway to give it to him. I gave him a hug and he said thank you so much and that there should be more people like me. I told him I believed in him and that everything would work out.
I got slack from idiots saying "Oh he's going to take your money and get drugs and booze." My bet is that he already knows that people will feel that way. Everyone needs someone to not give up on them and still believe in them. I would hate to think I had no one. And so what if he does get booze? He can cheers to me then. It's not like my ten bucks is going to get him an apartment. Anyway when I got back in my car and went to get on the highway I saw that he had sprawled his coat out to sit on the grass and have a little picnic with the burger king. I can't describe to you what I felt at that moment. It's shit like that that makes you feel so good inside. All the money in the world can't give you that feeling I had after seeing that. The little things in our lives mean so much to us when all has been taken away. So let's all be thankful for where we are and who we have in our lives. It could be so much worse.
My weekend was fantastic. Kate and I went to a gay bar in CT....the grassy knole...no that's not it. Brass balls?....nope the brassy rale? I don't remember. Anyway it was amazing. Instead of typing about it in a paragraph I'll just list random highlights.
Dancing with Kate and having the rican brothers cheering us on as I slapped her ass.
Having lipstick kisses on my neck most of the night from a hot drag queen.
Having Ms. queen lick whipcream off my chest three times.
Getting totally waisted on long island iced tea.
Having Kate's ex Moriah overhear what I wanted to drink and then buying me one....whatever. Cheers bitch.
When Moriah asked me to dance on the dance floor me laughing and telling her to ask Kate and Kate dissing her. Hilarious. "Oh it's like that?"..........LOL.
Getting in free.
Meeting our fun gay men.
Getting slapped on my ass with a belt by one of them.
Meeting Kate's babysitter when she was little who is also the same age as me. OUCH!
Getting free jello shots.
Kate being bombarded and hit on by a butt ugly thug girl.
Good times. Anyway, church was amazing on Sunday. I spotted a movie star while in church. The minister at Kate's church is gay and I was looking at her partner and I recognized her at once. She played the mom in the lesbian film The Incredible Adventured of Two Girls In Love. I asked Kate's mom what her name was, and low and behold, sure enough....it was her. Amazing. Kate nearly shit.
While in church they have this moment when this guy will play something really nice on the piano while everyone meditates and relaxes their eyes and is thankful for what they have in their life. Kate was sitting across the room exactly opposite from me. She had to because her choir sang that day. I looked at her. Her head was down with her eyes closed. I thought that's my future right there. I felt so thankful and lucky to have her in my life. Later on when we were dropping off her sister at camp, on the way walking back to the car Kate stopped me underneath a tree and said "This may sound really corny but while in church today when the man was playing the piano, I looked across the room at you and I saw my future."
Wow. Love you nani.
Me, Kate and Brit that night watched Witches of Eastwick. Boy did that movie take a LEFT turn at the end. It was hilarious watching it with Kate. I can't remember what she said but she made me crack up for about an hour. I realized I love watching movies with her. She always has something hilarious to say to make fun of the film if it sucks or just comment on something that is happening during the film. She would be such a great movie critic. A funny one.
Kate took me crabbing!!!!! It was so awesome. I had never heard of it before. She told me you get hooks, and lure them in with hotdogs as bate.....I did not believe it for a second. LOL. But um like 50 crabs later surrounding are hooks and hotdogs. lol. We pretty much gave all the crabs a feast. Everytime we looked in the water a crab was chilling eating a piece of hotdog. At one point I looked over on the rock and asked Kate what she was doing and she said "feeding the baby".....LOL. She was feeding the a tiny baby crab a hotdog on the rock because she said the others would bully him. I love nani.
On th way to CT, I saw my homeless friend again. He has been outside standing on the corner all day. I gave him ten bucks while at the red light and asked him if he had had anything to eat. He said he was going to go get something with the money I gave him. I told him to save it and asked him what he wanted. I went and got him burger king, and parked and walked across the highway to give it to him. I gave him a hug and he said thank you so much and that there should be more people like me. I told him I believed in him and that everything would work out.
I got slack from idiots saying "Oh he's going to take your money and get drugs and booze." My bet is that he already knows that people will feel that way. Everyone needs someone to not give up on them and still believe in them. I would hate to think I had no one. And so what if he does get booze? He can cheers to me then. It's not like my ten bucks is going to get him an apartment. Anyway when I got back in my car and went to get on the highway I saw that he had sprawled his coat out to sit on the grass and have a little picnic with the burger king. I can't describe to you what I felt at that moment. It's shit like that that makes you feel so good inside. All the money in the world can't give you that feeling I had after seeing that. The little things in our lives mean so much to us when all has been taken away. So let's all be thankful for where we are and who we have in our lives. It could be so much worse.