Feb 07, 2011 21:26
Getting lazier and lazier. Being a personal assistant is tough. However, my eye sight grow wider.
Buddha always said appreciate what you've got. However people intent to compare with each other, and there is always someone better than you. Most comment is among friends. Whose boyfriend/girlfriend is better, who earn more,whose marriage is better, then eventually whose child is better, in another words, whose is more superior. However, comparing makes you go crazy. If your mind has only compare in your mind, how could you be happy? Of course you would definitely look older than what you suppose to be.
People always ask me, you always look the same no matter how many years, how could you do that? Honestly, I' m very lazy. I don't put make up, I don't do exercise. All I do just being happy, or try to be happy. When I got a hard time, I always think in a good way. E.g. colleagues always pick on me, or well, consider as learning and think about the money in month end. Sometimes, try to think in another way, that colleague's family maybe having some hard time, that's why she is in a bad mood.
Although I could honestly tell you, I'm still learning. But I would try to my best to stay it this way. Appreciate what I've got. I'm fat, but at least I'm happy and healthy. I might not earn as much as my friends, but at least I got a job.
So this is my lesson for this year: Appreciation