-- and then
it IS the Victor Garber episode, and he is wearing a BOW TIE, and then he says he was a prisoner in Hanoi and that he wasn't home enough for his boy and he is torn up with guilt about that but so excited about his grandchild, and it's like BOW TIE JACK, or maybe Jack's secret other family or something, and there is no way I can keep watching this episode, because it will wind me up too much to sleep anytime in the next few hours. I save it for later VG feasting.