WTF ??
Okay ... I don't know what has gone wrong with the universe lately ... but someone turned that corner that is right angles to everything else, and didn't take me along with them.
Basically, my uncle tells me that he ran into my ex-wife the other day. No biggie -- she still lives in Knoxville, and even though she seems to be going through every friend I have on any other site and trying to friend them, she's not blatantly bothering *me*. So, again, no biggie ...
But then, my uncle proceeds to tell me that 'she looks hot' ...
~ blink, blink ~
What. The. Fuck. ??
Aside from the fact that this is my "EX" wife, heavy emphasis on the 'ex' ... he's like twenty plus years older than her. I don't know if I'm more disturbed to think that he's just lusting after her, which would be okay - but I don't want to hear about it; or for that matter, *anyone* that he's lusting after. Or maybe he's asking me what I was thinking when I divorced her ... which again, doesn't matter a tat of gnat snot to him, as it was between she and I. Or maybe, he's just wanting to keep me in the loop about how she's doing in her life - but he apparently didn't talk to her, just saw her, and I could barely be bothered to care less how she's doing so long as she stays the hell away from me.
This brings to mind a quote, that I in no way want my friends to take badly or in the wrong way, as I have often and loudly, praised my good fortune in my "family by choice" versus my "family by blood". Here's the quote -- "What am I, flypaper for freaks?"
I. Don't. Want. To. Know. About. Her.
I'll listen if others tell me that they ran into her, I appreciate knowing that she's gotten her life on track, and I'm just petty enough to enjoy hearing that she's pulled some gaffe that makes her look loony. But I don't wanna get dragged into any drama, and there isn't going to be any He Said / She Said nonsense -- because I refuse.
Now, if my uncle can keep the creepy vibes to himself, I'll be okay again, eventually ...
I've gotta go shower now.
Basically, my uncle tells me that he ran into my ex-wife the other day. No biggie -- she still lives in Knoxville, and even though she seems to be going through every friend I have on any other site and trying to friend them, she's not blatantly bothering *me*. So, again, no biggie ...
But then, my uncle proceeds to tell me that 'she looks hot' ...
~ blink, blink ~
What. The. Fuck. ??
Aside from the fact that this is my "EX" wife, heavy emphasis on the 'ex' ... he's like twenty plus years older than her. I don't know if I'm more disturbed to think that he's just lusting after her, which would be okay - but I don't want to hear about it; or for that matter, *anyone* that he's lusting after. Or maybe he's asking me what I was thinking when I divorced her ... which again, doesn't matter a tat of gnat snot to him, as it was between she and I. Or maybe, he's just wanting to keep me in the loop about how she's doing in her life - but he apparently didn't talk to her, just saw her, and I could barely be bothered to care less how she's doing so long as she stays the hell away from me.
This brings to mind a quote, that I in no way want my friends to take badly or in the wrong way, as I have often and loudly, praised my good fortune in my "family by choice" versus my "family by blood". Here's the quote -- "What am I, flypaper for freaks?"
I. Don't. Want. To. Know. About. Her.
I'll listen if others tell me that they ran into her, I appreciate knowing that she's gotten her life on track, and I'm just petty enough to enjoy hearing that she's pulled some gaffe that makes her look loony. But I don't wanna get dragged into any drama, and there isn't going to be any He Said / She Said nonsense -- because I refuse.
Now, if my uncle can keep the creepy vibes to himself, I'll be okay again, eventually ...
I've gotta go shower now.