Aug 03, 2007 03:35
And it's less painful than you'd think, too.
Think about it. You waste your time, wracking your brain, thinking about what you possibly did wrong to make them feel the way they do. It's gotta be my fault, I'm not good enough, there's something wrong with me...STOP. People make their own decisions. People think their own thoughts, come to their own conclusions, and act out their own actions.
I am sick of trying to figure out what is wrong with me. There comes a point where you have to realize, they're making the decision to act the way they do. He's decided that he's going to be malicious and lash out any way he can. Did I force him to? No. That was his decision to be ridiculous.
I don't know of any of this makes sense. But long story short...when someone decides to treat you like shit, or drop you like you mean nothing in this world, that is THEIR deal. Let THEM sort their shit out. You can't let it affect you to the point that it changes who you are.
Live your own life...don't let the negative actions of others sway you. Don't do anything for anyone else...do it for yourself. One person's opinion of you doesn't mean a thing. There's billions of other people on the planet, and on a larger scale, they're nothing. They're a flea. They're an amoeba on a flea.
Meh...hopefully I'm not the only one who understood this.