Everything I've learned, thus far, about the dating world, according to me..
Well...
1) First and -VERY- foremost.. -Never-, and I MEAN -NEVER- again, will i kiss a guy before we are 'officially' dirlfriend and boyfriend, or however in the hell you wanna put it. So, to all the guys i'm "dating", forget about it. Its not happeneing. Why, you ask? Because, i believe that the majority of the guys i'm "dating" (for some reason, i hate that word) aren't "dating" me for me.. just for what they think I could put out. To those guys, they have a better chance fucking a dinosaur first. So i -am NOT- putting out until i know that they're in it for -who- i am.. not -what- I am. heh..
2)I figured out that you have to be about 110 pounds and a little more bubbly in personality, than i am, to get a decent looking guy. *shakes head* So, fruits, veggies, and gym, here i come. I swear, i will find me a nice looking guy who doesn't turn out to be an asshole.
3)Just because I don't end up interested in someone, doesn't mean I don't want to be friends.. so don't not talk to me if I tell you that. I wish people would be honest with me like that.. Most of the people i talk to just lead me on, weather or not they actually like me.. how lame is that? But, i have been doing good at not getting too attached, so its been easy to let go of those inconsiderate FUCKERS! *giggle*
4) Do -NOT- go to a movie for your first date.. that leads to nothingsville.
5) So i've decided these old guys aren't right for me. A 24 year old just isn't my type. I haven't even hit my party stage yet..and i want someone, for when i do, that will go out and party with me, and not sit home and be like, 'i'm too old for this shit', or 'i have to work' heh.. old guys.. heh.
6)I'm pretty sure i've gotten over my 'being shy' part of it all.. i've realized that by doing that.. it gets me a round trip to nothingsville.. and back again. It sucks.
7) This -is- the first time i've actually "dated around" (god, that sounds horrible.. i don't know why) so.. if i have no ideas on what to do.. play the 'guy's part' and figure something out! Isn't that how its supposed to go. I'm not picky. I'll do almost anything... and try most things at least once.. so figure something out.. if you have a hobby, take me to check it out! *sigh* That's one reason i'm beginning not to like TN very much... there's nothing to do, really.. i need a change.. or lots of vacations. *shrug*
If i think of more, i'll continue that list. I'm sure i'll have -alot- more soon. *shrug* Any ideas, or suggestions, feel free to help me out. See ya.
~Krista
1) First and -VERY- foremost.. -Never-, and I MEAN -NEVER- again, will i kiss a guy before we are 'officially' dirlfriend and boyfriend, or however in the hell you wanna put it. So, to all the guys i'm "dating", forget about it. Its not happeneing. Why, you ask? Because, i believe that the majority of the guys i'm "dating" (for some reason, i hate that word) aren't "dating" me for me.. just for what they think I could put out. To those guys, they have a better chance fucking a dinosaur first. So i -am NOT- putting out until i know that they're in it for -who- i am.. not -what- I am. heh..
2)I figured out that you have to be about 110 pounds and a little more bubbly in personality, than i am, to get a decent looking guy. *shakes head* So, fruits, veggies, and gym, here i come. I swear, i will find me a nice looking guy who doesn't turn out to be an asshole.
3)Just because I don't end up interested in someone, doesn't mean I don't want to be friends.. so don't not talk to me if I tell you that. I wish people would be honest with me like that.. Most of the people i talk to just lead me on, weather or not they actually like me.. how lame is that? But, i have been doing good at not getting too attached, so its been easy to let go of those inconsiderate FUCKERS! *giggle*
4) Do -NOT- go to a movie for your first date.. that leads to nothingsville.
5) So i've decided these old guys aren't right for me. A 24 year old just isn't my type. I haven't even hit my party stage yet..and i want someone, for when i do, that will go out and party with me, and not sit home and be like, 'i'm too old for this shit', or 'i have to work' heh.. old guys.. heh.
6)I'm pretty sure i've gotten over my 'being shy' part of it all.. i've realized that by doing that.. it gets me a round trip to nothingsville.. and back again. It sucks.
7) This -is- the first time i've actually "dated around" (god, that sounds horrible.. i don't know why) so.. if i have no ideas on what to do.. play the 'guy's part' and figure something out! Isn't that how its supposed to go. I'm not picky. I'll do almost anything... and try most things at least once.. so figure something out.. if you have a hobby, take me to check it out! *sigh* That's one reason i'm beginning not to like TN very much... there's nothing to do, really.. i need a change.. or lots of vacations. *shrug*
If i think of more, i'll continue that list. I'm sure i'll have -alot- more soon. *shrug* Any ideas, or suggestions, feel free to help me out. See ya.
~Krista