dear parents.

Jul 16, 2008 18:40

i will not let you live my life for me. i know you think i'm a terrible person, that i'm going to make the same mistakes some people in our family have, that i have no clue what i'm doing, that i'll fail out of school, and that i'm with someone who can't support me. but i have done nothing to make you think all of those things, you're assumptions are not backed and inappropriate. you shouldn't hold me to someone else's standards. i've done nothing but retain straight A's, take all the AP courses available to me, become tied for valedictorian, and maintain a full list of extracurriculars. i've never done drugs, never smoked, heck i've never even had detention! so i'm just wondering when I became such a horrible person? is it when i met someone who loves me, and treats me well? Is it when I fell in love with that person and have every intention of being with him for the rest of my life? please, tell me cause i fail to see the problem here. I will be 22-23 so we will make the decision on whether or not we move in together. Not you. I will be 23-24, so we will make the decision whether or not we get married. Not you. Learn to trust that you've raised me right, that i'm not going to make the same mistakes as everyone else including yourself. Learn to trust that maybe i know what i'm doing. Learn that i'm not like other kids my age. I never have been. Learn that.

ps. you are supposed to make the hotel reservations when you're going to a BCT graduation. Just because we have not gotten a call from him saying he has passed his final PT test does not mean you don't make reservations. 1. Even if he didn't pass he had 3 more chances to pass this week so chances are, HE'S PASSED! 2. The hotels have a money back guarantee as long as you cancel within 24 hours. 3. Your credit card and information are encrypted and secure.
I can't make the military tell me if he's passed or not. if i could I would.
So you yelling at me that we can't schedule is totally ridiculus.

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