here i go, stooping to your level of "maturity"

Mar 12, 2003 15:35

i am not a negative person. you must be mistaken ( Read more... )

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xxshatteredxx March 13 2003, 09:36:01 UTC
you were the one to call us out as acquantances. i said you barely know the real me. you dont have any clue what goes on in my outside life do you? you probably dont know that my home life affects my behavior. but i guess you wouldnt know because your biggest problem is if you want to be with adam this week or not. you dont know what its like to be me. you have hung out with me four or five times, that doesnt constitute us as good friends. im not the only one who talks about your "friends" you talk behind their backs all the time.
i did not scream at you i told you no cause you assumed that i could. sorry i had prior obligations and you rudely asked.
i am very suprised you said something. i havent spoke more than two words to you in over a week. i have not lashed out or anything. i have been quite content and calm the past couple weeks.

"I'm done with it. I don't need negative people like you to bring me down. "
thats a direct quote from your entry. if thats not saying you dont want to be friends with me than what is it saying?

this whole thing is stupid and if you would have approached me like an adult than this wouldnt be such a big deal. so if you want to be an adult, act like one, call me, talk this out, quit playing lj tag.

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lemonpez March 13 2003, 13:13:39 UTC
Nevermind. Like i said, none of this is worth it. I don't know anything about you? You obviously don't know anything about me either, " i guess you wouldnt know because your biggest problem is if you want to be with adam this week or not." You have no idea. Don't try to attack my weaknesses. I could EASILY do that to you, but i have much more respect than that.

I was trying to go about this in a non-confrontational way, and i was trying to make this a discussion between 2 concerned people, but you insist on making it a cat fight. I'm done talking to you until you realize that i was never mad at you in the first place. Maybe we can talk when you calm down, because i'd like us to still be friends.

Email me (slackerchik220@hotmail.com) when it's safe to talk things out in a mature manner. I'll gladly call you and talk things out, but for now I don't feel like trying to talk to you and being verbally bashed.

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xxshatteredxx March 14 2003, 13:05:38 UTC
non confrontational? i think you went about it in the most confrontational way possible. i think less of you for not coming to me.
im not attacking your weakness, but stating a fact.
im not making this into a cat fight. you stated your opinion and i stated mine.
sure im mean but its never serious and im not negative by any means.
i feel like you use me for a ride or when you have nothing better to do, but i guess that doesnt matter.
safe to talk things out in a mature manner? ive been saying that all along. im not mad by any means. hurt, yes, but not mad. im mad because you didnt come to me with your problem with me.
i have told you a million times to call me and talk about this instead of lj tag but you insist on commenting back and not calling.
here i am being "mature" so you be "mature" and call if you really care about our "friendship"
i have been calm all along sweetie, but i guess you wouldnt know because there is a distance between us.
:o)
thanks.

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