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ANOTHER photo post?
I'm just a cam-whoring hussy lately!
Having a great time hanging out with new and exciting people. Well, 'new' as in people I have neglected through the whole Aaron - Alli - night club scene. Perfect time of year for reconnecting, social season is upon us and all the loveliest have their birthdays!
Brielle included: She's the tongue-making one.
Then you get the
In the red corner, the queen of scowl, surrounded by champagne-filled floosies:
And in the blue, with years of school based frown experience and supported by a portion of the pink lady crew:
I don't mind telling you it was a close call.
ALSO.
Alli is moving out. Maybe as soon as this weekend. She chose the boyfriend over me. Well, not really, but I think she wants to just grown up and settle down and indulge in some serious one-on-one with the man, so it's time for us to part ways.
It's a little bit sad (mind you I haven't been feeling real strong emotions about her for the last few months so it makes me realise we're doing the right thing), but mroe than anything the whole idea is EXCITING!
I suppose we were so in to each other those first few months that we set ourselves up for disappointment - so much love, and it got me through a really rough patch, but not sustainable. So we're going to keep a little distance and that way we can still get excited about seeing each other. Should be good, I'm excited about having my own space and it's a good thing for her to be loved so much by a boy, since there's only so much I can do for her :)
Mind you, aside from all the good things about the guy there are some parts I just can't stand, and I can tell you guys because none of them know lj exists... so here I go.
28 years old
lives with mum
works 20 - 30 hrs a week packing shelves overnight, and has done for the past 5 ish years
indecisive pushover of a man
8 year old part time daughter (which isn't a minus, but the fact that this hasn't motivated him to do more with his life bothers me personally)
not the brightest spark - lovely guy but gives me the shits
and she wants to have his babies
Of course if I try to mention any of it (the babies/support thing especially) it's hard to appear concerned but not shallow... then again she might pull her finger out and make some real money in the next few years if she knows she is working towards babies, and maybe they will do it on her success without relying on him - seems to be her plan for the moment, anyway.
Bah. I'm just bitter because in my experience it's the relationships that 'fast forward' with all those passionate soul-gazing moments that are the most dangerous.
And because they have both treated their friends pretty shittily over the last month (long, long story) and my feelings were kind of hurt.
New beginning, or at least a reinvention anyway. I'll always love the lady, but my world might be getting just that little bit bigger.
Next post: House photos. My newfandangled phone will take them and then talk to my computer, so I can share!
I'm just a cam-whoring hussy lately!
Having a great time hanging out with new and exciting people. Well, 'new' as in people I have neglected through the whole Aaron - Alli - night club scene. Perfect time of year for reconnecting, social season is upon us and all the loveliest have their birthdays!
Brielle included: She's the tongue-making one.
Then you get the
In the red corner, the queen of scowl, surrounded by champagne-filled floosies:
And in the blue, with years of school based frown experience and supported by a portion of the pink lady crew:
I don't mind telling you it was a close call.
ALSO.
Alli is moving out. Maybe as soon as this weekend. She chose the boyfriend over me. Well, not really, but I think she wants to just grown up and settle down and indulge in some serious one-on-one with the man, so it's time for us to part ways.
It's a little bit sad (mind you I haven't been feeling real strong emotions about her for the last few months so it makes me realise we're doing the right thing), but mroe than anything the whole idea is EXCITING!
I suppose we were so in to each other those first few months that we set ourselves up for disappointment - so much love, and it got me through a really rough patch, but not sustainable. So we're going to keep a little distance and that way we can still get excited about seeing each other. Should be good, I'm excited about having my own space and it's a good thing for her to be loved so much by a boy, since there's only so much I can do for her :)
Mind you, aside from all the good things about the guy there are some parts I just can't stand, and I can tell you guys because none of them know lj exists... so here I go.
28 years old
lives with mum
works 20 - 30 hrs a week packing shelves overnight, and has done for the past 5 ish years
indecisive pushover of a man
8 year old part time daughter (which isn't a minus, but the fact that this hasn't motivated him to do more with his life bothers me personally)
not the brightest spark - lovely guy but gives me the shits
and she wants to have his babies
Of course if I try to mention any of it (the babies/support thing especially) it's hard to appear concerned but not shallow... then again she might pull her finger out and make some real money in the next few years if she knows she is working towards babies, and maybe they will do it on her success without relying on him - seems to be her plan for the moment, anyway.
Bah. I'm just bitter because in my experience it's the relationships that 'fast forward' with all those passionate soul-gazing moments that are the most dangerous.
And because they have both treated their friends pretty shittily over the last month (long, long story) and my feelings were kind of hurt.
New beginning, or at least a reinvention anyway. I'll always love the lady, but my world might be getting just that little bit bigger.
Next post: House photos. My newfandangled phone will take them and then talk to my computer, so I can share!