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Okay so I just finished the most AMAZING book on this planet today- "He's Just not that into you." Your daily wake-up call. Yeah its pretty much the truth to understanding guys.
And if you read the following and you will understand why this book is amazing.
#84 There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he's your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.
#126 He's just not that into your if he only wants to see you when he's drunk. If he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgement isn't impaired.
#152 Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.
#163 Everyone wants to be loved and needed paricularly by the person who just broke up with us.
#172 A guy says he doesn't want to be with you. Sometimes that guy realized he's made the biggest mistake of his life. And then some-times he doesn't. Either way, either way, your only job is to move on with your life, and fast.
#176 You can't talk your way out of a breakup. It is not up for discussion. A breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one.
#178 Cut him off. Let him miss you.
#182 There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.
#191 Don't ask yourself what you did wrong or how you could have done it differently. Don't waste your caluable heart and mind trying to figure out why he did what he did. Or thinking back on all the things he said, and wondering, what was the ruth and what was the lie. The only thing you need to know is that it's really good news: He's gone. Hallelujah.
#197 Don't give him the chance to reject you again.
#205 The " I should just wait it out" excuse It's never going to be good news if you have to think of your relationship in terms of "waiting for him" He's not a stock you're supposedto be investing in. He's a man who's suppost to be emotionally available enought to talk to you, see you, and perhaps fall madly in love with you.
#215 You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he's ready.
#237 You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time. ( You have to be nice to them,too.)
#240 You already have one asshole. You don't need another.
Q: You say that I shouldn't talk to my ex-boyfriend unless he's begging to get back together with me. But then you also say that I should be suspicious of a guy that wants to get back together with me after he's broken up with me. What's up?
A: Well, my first point was, I want you to see the difference between an ex who just misses you and needs a fix, and a man who realizes he made a mistake and seriously wants to get back together with you. But even then, I think you must proceed with caution and truly question this man's motives. And I definitely want you to stay away from any man that keeps breaking up with you on a regular basis.
Hm.. pretty much my life story =]
Anyways thats just a few.. but thats why I freakin love this book.
... And i'm going to read it again :-) <33