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[xxlizziexx]

I am really upset right now.

My best friend is telling me how much she hates that I am smoking and that she views me as weak, now.

And we are having this huge conversation, and I feel real bad/guilty about myself right now.

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[sourblaze]

It's your business if you smoke or not, although I would hope you are aware of the downfalls of smoking (cancer, clothes that smell like smoke, yellow teeth, etc.).

If she views you as weak, oh well: Not her business.

[sourblaze]

I smoke too, once in a while. My family likes to talk shit to me about it -- even though all of them smoke far more than I do, and it isn't always cigarettes!

Seriously, it's your business if you want to smoke. As long as you ask those around you, politely, "Would it be okay if I smoke?"

[xxlizziexx]

Oh yeah. I always make sure it is okay with the people around me.

I know what you mean. She was a huge smoker for 7 years, but I don't know. I know she is just looking out for me, but I hate the feeling of being judged.

But don't we all?