i've never been so lost, but i've never felt so much at home.
to question one's ability to love is almost to question one's ability to breathe. love is a natural process, fueled by chemicals in the brain and most importantly a feeling in someone's heart. questioning someone's decision to let themselves fall head over heels in love with you is like questioning why the sky was blue or perhaps, why the earth is round instead of flat. it's a natural progression for some people. the feelings assocated with the idea of being in love are some of the most indescribeable feelings. even after a relationship has ended, the idea of loving that other person should have never be questioned. if a person says that he/she loves you, they do. trust them, don't ever tell them that they don't love you, don't ever doubt. trust - sometimes it's all you've got. don't make that other person feel guilty for having feelings for you, because if you think about it hypothetically, are you trying to make them feel guilty for breathing as well? first off, who are you to decide who that other person has feelings for and who they don't, and secondly, who are you to say they are wrong if they somehow, through a past relationship or not, are you to decide whether or not they are wrong for falling in love with you? love is a two way conversation, love is a two way relationship. regardless of whether or not you love someone or they love you back, you must have done something to insinuate the feelings that lead up to the "love" aspect. love is not a maybe thing, you know when you're in love. don't question it - sometimes it's all you've got.