Jul 17, 2006 13:31
i had the urge to search the reason for drama, and heres what i came up with...
this may be one of the only things i will ever completely understand!
Drama. Girls love drama. They won't admit it, but they do. In fact, the entire human race seems to enjoy a certain degree of drama. Females enjoy it more than others. If you don't believe me, two words. Soap Operas. It gets the pulse going and well, ruins lives, all in a day's work. Drama by definition is: A situation or succession of events in real life having the dramatic progression or emotional effect characteristic of a play. No where in that definition, or the other four that were supplied by dictionary.com, did I see the words, lying, cheating, yelling, screaming, backstabbing, acting like a bitch, or nosy. In fact, I am certain they do not belong there. Where I am going with this is? All drama is self induced. In other words, all drama is brought upon you by yourself. Immediately you throw up the defense mechanism of: "I don't create it, drama comes to me." I'm sorry, but you're wrong. You somehow were invovled in some action that created this situation in the first place. Sorry pal, it's the truth. 99.9999999999% of the world isn't out to get you or spread nasty rumors about your "oh so interesting life." Didn't mean to burst your bubble. Ok yes I did mean to burst your bubble. Almost every human being on this planet doesn't spread stuff about someone without a motive. So you did something along the way to put a chink in the armor we can say.
In fact, if you were to say you hate drama, then well, nothing should phase you. Someone could come up to you and say, "Hey, I heard that you had sex with 15 goats last night and cheated on your mom with your brother." If you truly avoid drama you would say, "I don't care. Now fuck off while I ignore you." Everyone is guilty of being invovled, starting, or ending drama. It has happened to all of us. The thing that does piss me off, is if you talk to a girl at the right time, they will admit to you, "I hate drama, girls are so stupid about all the little petty things." Which might be one of the more true statements in the universe. But the second drama comes around, they join in willingly and never look back. Anything to raise a pulse or two is worth it. It doesn't matter if it takes going behind your best friend's back and calling her a dirty whore with pussing herpes sores in her anus, or if you make up a rumor just to see someone's life go down the shitter. Any gossip is good gossip.