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In this issue, we will be discussing what here in the business like to call "self-defeating" girls. Yes, it is quite a subject for one person to tackle but i think i might be able to handle it. I know you're asking yourself, "Now Drew, What is a self-defeating girl?". Well reader, i think i'll elaborate for you. A self-defeating girl is a female who has to have a boyfriend, and said boyfriend HAS to, oh and i mean HAS to treat her like shit MAJORITY of the time. See now, the boyfriend, while hanging out doing things he likes to do and getting things he wants *wink wink nudge nudge* he can seem like the most "perfect" boyfriend. With the relationship starting out, everything seems as a normal relationship should. Each party is happy and content with one another, but then right in the peak of the relationship, the female begins to as i like to call it "flip out" or "completely lose it like a crazy bitch". They begin to find everything that the male does, their own fault. If the boyfriend doesn't call that day like he usually does, it turns into a defcon 1 situation. What if he's mad at me? or What if something's wrong with him? or He probably hates me? are the obvious choices for the female at that point. Obvious choices to her, yes. Obvious choices to any other sane and logical person, far away from yes as possible. A normal and sane person would think "now i bet he was just busy and didn't have time to call her" or "maybe he didn't feel like talking right then" or "goddammit woman chill the hell out it's not like you talk to him every goddamned day anyway, what's one day gonna hurt?". On to another topic, if the boyfriend is being a dick or just a complete asshole to the girlfriend, it's automatically her fault. Completely neglecting the fact that the boyfriend, out of nowhere, just got mad for no reason at all and probably isn't even mad at her and is just venting about life in general and she was the nearest person, the girlfriend 100% takes all the blame herself, because why you ask, she's close to insane. she's completely lost herself in this relationship and the only way she can feel complete if she takes the shit. she can't get out of the relationship or else, who would she worry about and have around to constantly wonder if they're mad at her. these relationships need to be stopped by an outside force and if not, can probably lead to death. well that's it for now, please tune in next time for another extremely exciting issue of whatever the hell it is i'm writing for.
all joking aside, i know too many girls like this. i feel so bad for them all the time and i always think about them. i wish i could just give them a hug for a long time and tell them that everything will be ok, but you know what, i can't. that won't mean shit to them, they'll just go back to some guy who's an asshole to them most of the time and they'll suck it because they "love them". i personally think deep down they, in some sick way, love it. they can't function in a relationship without the constant drama and upsettingness(yeah i made it up). one day these people will wake up, after being in a relationship for years too many and realize that they were wrong. god i hope they do
all joking aside, i know too many girls like this. i feel so bad for them all the time and i always think about them. i wish i could just give them a hug for a long time and tell them that everything will be ok, but you know what, i can't. that won't mean shit to them, they'll just go back to some guy who's an asshole to them most of the time and they'll suck it because they "love them". i personally think deep down they, in some sick way, love it. they can't function in a relationship without the constant drama and upsettingness(yeah i made it up). one day these people will wake up, after being in a relationship for years too many and realize that they were wrong. god i hope they do