Case Closed. Verdict: Moms are stupid
Dude, how fucking immature. If I treated my mom like this she'd get so pissed at me, but if she treats me like this and I get mad then guess what...she's still pissed at me.
Basically what happened was this: Monday night I was talking on AIM legitimately cuz I was done with my hw. My mom even asked me if I was done and I had said yes. A fact she conveniently decided to forget. So like 10 minutes later she came to the doorway and just stared at me. I knew if I said a word to her she'd blow up at me and I knew I wasn't doing anything wrong but she'd find something wrong with it anyway, cuz I'm always doing something wrong. I'm never scot-free when it comes to my mom. Anyway...so I just left the room and ignored her cuz I didn't feel like arguing and I went downstairs to do the dishes. So what did I do that night? Did everything my parents asked me to do and avoided conflict with my mom.
The next morning apparently I left the house without saying goodbye to my mom. Of course, if I had done this she wouldn't have said anything except wait for me to kiss her goodbye on the cheek and that pisses me off cuz she always acts like I'm obligated. Yea so since then she's not talked to me and she just ignored me in the house and all that stuff. For example, when my dad was home she'd ask a question and leave it up in the air and I'd answer it (cuz I'm mature enough not to ignore her) and she'd just ignore my answer until my dad said the same exact thing that I said. Guess it wasn't acceptable until he said it. Whatever, fucking retarded if you ask me.
Yea so today they cancelled the cheer meeting, and I didn't call my mom to tell her. Cuz, I figured if she was gonna ignore me, I could play that game. It was immature of me, I admit, but I think I was allowed a little bit of immaturity towards her after all I had endured from her for the past week. So she got back and got really pissed at me and finally broke the silence. I found out that she hasn't talked to me since Tuesday because I didn't say bye to her that one morning. And I was like "Why is it my responsibility. You leave all the time without saying bye to me." and she goes "Cuz you're the daughter." and I'm like "Okay well that's kind of a double standard" and she was like "Yea it is. You just treat me like that cuz I'm the mom"
Like dammit, I'm 16 years old. In 2 years I'll be 18 and off to college. I'm not stupid you know. If you don't respect me and listen to what I say and trust that I'm doign things fine on my own...I'm not just gonna go to bed and wake up with everything forgiven and forgotten and go kiss you goodbye. It doesn't fucking work that way and I don't know what would happen in your perfect world, but this ain't your world and it definitely ain't perfect either. See in your world you'd want me to be some sort of genius who has no real thought of her own except what you tell me so all I'd do is get good grades and do what you want. Sorry that I've grown up to formulate my own thoughts and my own opinions and matured in my own way. My thoughts are that I'm fine doing things my way, my opinion is that what you do is bullshit and you can go brag to all your Asian friends that you're more immature than your 16 year old daughter. '
Okay I'm done.
Basically what happened was this: Monday night I was talking on AIM legitimately cuz I was done with my hw. My mom even asked me if I was done and I had said yes. A fact she conveniently decided to forget. So like 10 minutes later she came to the doorway and just stared at me. I knew if I said a word to her she'd blow up at me and I knew I wasn't doing anything wrong but she'd find something wrong with it anyway, cuz I'm always doing something wrong. I'm never scot-free when it comes to my mom. Anyway...so I just left the room and ignored her cuz I didn't feel like arguing and I went downstairs to do the dishes. So what did I do that night? Did everything my parents asked me to do and avoided conflict with my mom.
The next morning apparently I left the house without saying goodbye to my mom. Of course, if I had done this she wouldn't have said anything except wait for me to kiss her goodbye on the cheek and that pisses me off cuz she always acts like I'm obligated. Yea so since then she's not talked to me and she just ignored me in the house and all that stuff. For example, when my dad was home she'd ask a question and leave it up in the air and I'd answer it (cuz I'm mature enough not to ignore her) and she'd just ignore my answer until my dad said the same exact thing that I said. Guess it wasn't acceptable until he said it. Whatever, fucking retarded if you ask me.
Yea so today they cancelled the cheer meeting, and I didn't call my mom to tell her. Cuz, I figured if she was gonna ignore me, I could play that game. It was immature of me, I admit, but I think I was allowed a little bit of immaturity towards her after all I had endured from her for the past week. So she got back and got really pissed at me and finally broke the silence. I found out that she hasn't talked to me since Tuesday because I didn't say bye to her that one morning. And I was like "Why is it my responsibility. You leave all the time without saying bye to me." and she goes "Cuz you're the daughter." and I'm like "Okay well that's kind of a double standard" and she was like "Yea it is. You just treat me like that cuz I'm the mom"
Like dammit, I'm 16 years old. In 2 years I'll be 18 and off to college. I'm not stupid you know. If you don't respect me and listen to what I say and trust that I'm doign things fine on my own...I'm not just gonna go to bed and wake up with everything forgiven and forgotten and go kiss you goodbye. It doesn't fucking work that way and I don't know what would happen in your perfect world, but this ain't your world and it definitely ain't perfect either. See in your world you'd want me to be some sort of genius who has no real thought of her own except what you tell me so all I'd do is get good grades and do what you want. Sorry that I've grown up to formulate my own thoughts and my own opinions and matured in my own way. My thoughts are that I'm fine doing things my way, my opinion is that what you do is bullshit and you can go brag to all your Asian friends that you're more immature than your 16 year old daughter. '
Okay I'm done.