no more secret love life
Well it looks like I have a little bit of time to type something before my family gets home from the doctor's office and shopping in Aurora. They left around 930ish am and it is juts over an hour since they've left. I found that many times I have been tempted to write in LJ and do not do so due to my family being around or something else gets in the way. Now I am alone and can reflect on what has happened earlier this week.
On Christmas night, I send my friend Chrystal Lopez (from high school) a line wishing her season's greetings. We have not communicated since maybe the end of summer, but every year we contact each other during Xmas and each other's birthdays. She was telling me about how Americans don't have Boxing Day, but they have something called Black Friday. Sounds Halloweenish if you ask me. That's one thing I learned that day, but my main topic is what I revealed to C-Lo when we started getting into the topic of her ex-boyfriend, how she messaged him after a threatening scenario from years ago. I'm glad the guy got arrested at one point. She updates me on her current love life and about how she thinks an engagement is coming in the next couple of years. I tell her how happy i am just to even think about it. This leads into her asking me about my love life. All along she had thought I was straight.
Well I told C-Lo yes I'm with a special someone and that I would send her a picture once I get back to Barrie. The pics are on my laptop and it's a pain to get the internet on my laptop working in this house. It's much easier for me to just use the house computer in my Newmarket home when it's anything internet related. The internet service service in this home doesn't allowe for multi-internet usage anyway I don't think. Looks like I'm getting side-tracked. Back to the convo. C-Lo asked "whats their name". There is a delayed response.
The pause is from my sister in the room trying to convince me not to say it. I'm trying to type but my sis tugs and grabs my arms to stop me from typing to C-Lo. I told her Chrystal is far away anyway so there's not much harm that can be done whether she finds out or not. I tell my sister to leave me alone and eventually she doesn't restrain me anymore. I tell C-Lo the person I'm seeing is no female, and that the name is Mike. C-Lo's response is 'oh quang! aww really!!!' She asked about when I felt all this, if it was college. Looking back at the msn convo I didn't really respond to her accurately...maybe I got distracted thinking about another aspect of coming out. I'll be sure to clear this with her next time we chat.
Chrystal inquires more about the topic, I tell her things including how I said I love you to Mike over the phone without even having a clear face to match the person I was talking to. I mention how what I felt for my past exes do not come close to matching what I feel for Mike. C-Lo tells me that she is ecstatic for me!!!
We end up talking about people from our old high school is gay or bi. She names Kevin and Dave, I bring up Ray G's name, and she tells me oh ya they had threesomes. I am not surrprised that the 3 guys she mentioned is gay. She tells me how she loves gay guys since they know soo much about woment!!! =) I learned that Lisa K is bi. I liked her. She was nice and friendly to me. Turns out C-Lo believed I was straight in hs cause I would tell her so and so was pretty. She also thought I was shy about talking alot about that kinda stuff since I didn't talk about it much.
So I'm kinda getting tired but need to have breakfast. I'mglad that C-Lo seemed to be accpeting of my orientation. Ever since I found out her view about my sexuality, I mention her name thanking the lord for an accepting friend that I have when I am praying. Thanks Chrystal for being supportive. I miss you *MWAH*
On Christmas night, I send my friend Chrystal Lopez (from high school) a line wishing her season's greetings. We have not communicated since maybe the end of summer, but every year we contact each other during Xmas and each other's birthdays. She was telling me about how Americans don't have Boxing Day, but they have something called Black Friday. Sounds Halloweenish if you ask me. That's one thing I learned that day, but my main topic is what I revealed to C-Lo when we started getting into the topic of her ex-boyfriend, how she messaged him after a threatening scenario from years ago. I'm glad the guy got arrested at one point. She updates me on her current love life and about how she thinks an engagement is coming in the next couple of years. I tell her how happy i am just to even think about it. This leads into her asking me about my love life. All along she had thought I was straight.
Well I told C-Lo yes I'm with a special someone and that I would send her a picture once I get back to Barrie. The pics are on my laptop and it's a pain to get the internet on my laptop working in this house. It's much easier for me to just use the house computer in my Newmarket home when it's anything internet related. The internet service service in this home doesn't allowe for multi-internet usage anyway I don't think. Looks like I'm getting side-tracked. Back to the convo. C-Lo asked "whats their name". There is a delayed response.
The pause is from my sister in the room trying to convince me not to say it. I'm trying to type but my sis tugs and grabs my arms to stop me from typing to C-Lo. I told her Chrystal is far away anyway so there's not much harm that can be done whether she finds out or not. I tell my sister to leave me alone and eventually she doesn't restrain me anymore. I tell C-Lo the person I'm seeing is no female, and that the name is Mike. C-Lo's response is 'oh quang! aww really!!!' She asked about when I felt all this, if it was college. Looking back at the msn convo I didn't really respond to her accurately...maybe I got distracted thinking about another aspect of coming out. I'll be sure to clear this with her next time we chat.
Chrystal inquires more about the topic, I tell her things including how I said I love you to Mike over the phone without even having a clear face to match the person I was talking to. I mention how what I felt for my past exes do not come close to matching what I feel for Mike. C-Lo tells me that she is ecstatic for me!!!
We end up talking about people from our old high school is gay or bi. She names Kevin and Dave, I bring up Ray G's name, and she tells me oh ya they had threesomes. I am not surrprised that the 3 guys she mentioned is gay. She tells me how she loves gay guys since they know soo much about woment!!! =) I learned that Lisa K is bi. I liked her. She was nice and friendly to me. Turns out C-Lo believed I was straight in hs cause I would tell her so and so was pretty. She also thought I was shy about talking alot about that kinda stuff since I didn't talk about it much.
So I'm kinda getting tired but need to have breakfast. I'mglad that C-Lo seemed to be accpeting of my orientation. Ever since I found out her view about my sexuality, I mention her name thanking the lord for an accepting friend that I have when I am praying. Thanks Chrystal for being supportive. I miss you *MWAH*