i'll take this one day + figure out what i did right.. do it the same way for the rest of my life.
"hey there my beautiful green eyed red haired little lady... just wanted to talk to you before i went to bed. give me a call. bye." yep i definitely just found that on my voicemail waiting for me. tell me i'm not lucky.
the past few days have been really nice.. he's getting situated at kenny & jessica's. i've been over there friday, sunday, monday & tomorrow i'm goin back. kenny & jessica are really nice people, a lot of fun to be around. they have quite a few acres out in lakeland & a pretty nice house for only being married for 6 months now. jason has his own little area there.. bedroom, bathroom & walk-in closet. he likes it a lot. so i'm glad. the drive out there is really nice & it's only about.. 45 minutes on average. so things are goin good!
tonight he came over to my house & ate dinner. i was really nervous.. i know it's weird but i have this thing about people being in my house. i don't really like it. so i was a little freaked out.. but everything went really well. my mom made beef stew. we just sat around talking & everything while she was making it & then he sat down with me & helped me with my trig homework. he was really good at math in high school. so then my dad came home. right off the bat things were a little rocky.. he shook my dad's hand & said "how's it goin bubba? i mean SIR?" haha his eyes got so big but my dad just laughed. we went in the other room & he goes "dude, that sucks ass." i told him not to worry about it, & sure enough things went pretty well the rest of the night. we all sat down to dinner together & he & my dad actually made really good conversation. the rest of us were quiet. they talked about fishing, jokes, me traveling & jason's family. i was really happy with it! it was quite exciting. then everybody left so i cleaned up the kitchen while he poked around my house & looked in the backyard & stuff. then he came back in & came up behind me while i was at the sink & hugged me for a minute. haha it was the sweetest thing ever.. so frickin simple. i love the little things. then he went & sat down in the family room & after like five minutes he was like, "can you come spend some time with me before i have to leave?" i started laughing & went over & sat with him. we talked for a while & then i saw him off.
he was really worried about how my parents liked him. he was talking about how nervous he was because he didn't want them to distrust him because of his age. he was like, "i know your dad thinks i'm swampass. he probably thinks i'm some backcountry hick with no brains. i think that's why i'm so nervous about them.. they're not backcountry rednecks like me. they're nothing like the people i've grown up around. i know your dad thinks i'm white trash. this is the second time i've come into yalls house with cutoff sleeves. if i had known your dad would be there i would have dressed nice." i kept on tellin him not to worry. but i was a little nervous myself. my dad had been eyeing his tonguering & eyebrow ring.. but jason had taken out all his earrings & stuff. & i knew my dad wouldn't be quite kosher about jason's saying "aint" all the time along with all his other slangs. my dad actually made fun of his drawl & i thought jason was gonna be mad as hell but he just laughed. thank god he understands my dads from up north.
when my dad got home, he told me he liked jason. thank goodness. he said he was a nice guy. so it looks like everything is clear! my biggest worries are gone! my family is a-okay with him & his is fine with me. woohoo! i've got a really great feeling about this.
so he called me when he got home & then called me again to talk to me before he laid down. fabulous. jason is definitely a good thing.
the past few days have been really nice.. he's getting situated at kenny & jessica's. i've been over there friday, sunday, monday & tomorrow i'm goin back. kenny & jessica are really nice people, a lot of fun to be around. they have quite a few acres out in lakeland & a pretty nice house for only being married for 6 months now. jason has his own little area there.. bedroom, bathroom & walk-in closet. he likes it a lot. so i'm glad. the drive out there is really nice & it's only about.. 45 minutes on average. so things are goin good!
tonight he came over to my house & ate dinner. i was really nervous.. i know it's weird but i have this thing about people being in my house. i don't really like it. so i was a little freaked out.. but everything went really well. my mom made beef stew. we just sat around talking & everything while she was making it & then he sat down with me & helped me with my trig homework. he was really good at math in high school. so then my dad came home. right off the bat things were a little rocky.. he shook my dad's hand & said "how's it goin bubba? i mean SIR?" haha his eyes got so big but my dad just laughed. we went in the other room & he goes "dude, that sucks ass." i told him not to worry about it, & sure enough things went pretty well the rest of the night. we all sat down to dinner together & he & my dad actually made really good conversation. the rest of us were quiet. they talked about fishing, jokes, me traveling & jason's family. i was really happy with it! it was quite exciting. then everybody left so i cleaned up the kitchen while he poked around my house & looked in the backyard & stuff. then he came back in & came up behind me while i was at the sink & hugged me for a minute. haha it was the sweetest thing ever.. so frickin simple. i love the little things. then he went & sat down in the family room & after like five minutes he was like, "can you come spend some time with me before i have to leave?" i started laughing & went over & sat with him. we talked for a while & then i saw him off.
he was really worried about how my parents liked him. he was talking about how nervous he was because he didn't want them to distrust him because of his age. he was like, "i know your dad thinks i'm swampass. he probably thinks i'm some backcountry hick with no brains. i think that's why i'm so nervous about them.. they're not backcountry rednecks like me. they're nothing like the people i've grown up around. i know your dad thinks i'm white trash. this is the second time i've come into yalls house with cutoff sleeves. if i had known your dad would be there i would have dressed nice." i kept on tellin him not to worry. but i was a little nervous myself. my dad had been eyeing his tonguering & eyebrow ring.. but jason had taken out all his earrings & stuff. & i knew my dad wouldn't be quite kosher about jason's saying "aint" all the time along with all his other slangs. my dad actually made fun of his drawl & i thought jason was gonna be mad as hell but he just laughed. thank god he understands my dads from up north.
when my dad got home, he told me he liked jason. thank goodness. he said he was a nice guy. so it looks like everything is clear! my biggest worries are gone! my family is a-okay with him & his is fine with me. woohoo! i've got a really great feeling about this.
so he called me when he got home & then called me again to talk to me before he laid down. fabulous. jason is definitely a good thing.