May 16, 2004 01:49
What ever happened to the days when a relationship was just so simple. I'm referring more specifically to dating. When we just start out, or just about to start out...there's this feeling of awkwardness. We concentrate on this tiny sense of nervousness to overcome. We ask all the interesting and fun questions on the early dates. We go out to all the exciting festivals and relaxing movies. Then, when the comfort zone is breached, it all falls apart. I know, I know...if it all falls apart that early, than it was never meant to be. Despite of this, I just can't help thinking about how difficult it really is to know when to let go. Is it really time to break up?Are we just rushing out of something that really has potential because of bit of fear or ambition for something more etc?
Love is overrated by hormones and stupid tv dramas.
By nature, we are all dreamers...giving into the illusion of the perfect soulmate. I guess that's why staying in a relationship is often harder than getting into one. When it's all over, why must we feel so relieved yet so curious as to whether we had made the right decision?
How do we know if it's time to let go and just let it burn?
With matches in hand...
-Cherie