This is getting ridiculous.. srsly!
Okay, so I'm on my LJ homepage and at the top it sez "Messages (1864)"!!!!! *flails and dies* OMFG!! This is getting ridiculous and entirely, hopelessly un-managable... so I am going to be giving my flist a once (or twice) over to see who I haven't read in forever or what fandoms aren't doing it for me anymore.... OF COURSE anyone whose journal I comment on frequently or who comments here frequently need not worry. I am only going over the ones I never seem to make time to read anymore... blah. So if you are reading invisibly or anonymously or whatever just leave a comment, even if it's just "..." so I know you are there and reading.