ok guys advice please....
SO you know the thing with Steve and we have split up.
But its not him i am having problems with, its my mum.
She will not let it lie!! Shes texting him nasty stuff an threats all the time liek every day.
But when steve replies to her saying back off shes on the phone to me sayign steve said this and that blah blah and im not don with him and im goign to make his life hell and she is goign to phone his work and tell them what he did! EH!! WTF!! Im so fed up with it. I am so stressed.really, i am.
And shes like, dont get anyo e else just focus on yourself and the baby blah blah. And i want her to understand i want steve to be a dad if hes willign which he is and to be civil. But, thats not ALLOWED!!
But its ok for other men to cheat on my family members and them be freinds for life or gt back together!!!
Iknow shes goign to call again and go on and im just gunna say .. look. Like it or not hes the dad and he wants to be involved. I dont want all that shit i had with nais dad ie court etc.
Im so sick of it all.
I have let it go and being civil why can she?!
He is goign to be in our lives no matter what, he is goign to be a dad but im not wanting him back.
What do i say to her without having a fight? cause im ready to blow. She thinks when i say i want him to be a dad im stickign up for him and i want him back but i dont!!!!!
But its not him i am having problems with, its my mum.
She will not let it lie!! Shes texting him nasty stuff an threats all the time liek every day.
But when steve replies to her saying back off shes on the phone to me sayign steve said this and that blah blah and im not don with him and im goign to make his life hell and she is goign to phone his work and tell them what he did! EH!! WTF!! Im so fed up with it. I am so stressed.really, i am.
And shes like, dont get anyo e else just focus on yourself and the baby blah blah. And i want her to understand i want steve to be a dad if hes willign which he is and to be civil. But, thats not ALLOWED!!
But its ok for other men to cheat on my family members and them be freinds for life or gt back together!!!
Iknow shes goign to call again and go on and im just gunna say .. look. Like it or not hes the dad and he wants to be involved. I dont want all that shit i had with nais dad ie court etc.
Im so sick of it all.
I have let it go and being civil why can she?!
He is goign to be in our lives no matter what, he is goign to be a dad but im not wanting him back.
What do i say to her without having a fight? cause im ready to blow. She thinks when i say i want him to be a dad im stickign up for him and i want him back but i dont!!!!!