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this was good. i didn't write it, though. it was one of my friend's livejournal posts:
"because i look at it this way:
when you love someone for who they are and the way they already look,
but they always want to change those things-
wouldn't you be a bit worried that they might try to change you, too?
or worse, get rid of you?
and that, my friends is what will leave us with a sort of humilation we might not deserve to face. the kind of humiliation that comes with not feeling good enough for someone who isn't even good enough for themselves. that's pretty lame, huh?
like, what's the point in trying to be something to someone who can't even be alright with themself? that's fucked up."
"because i look at it this way:
when you love someone for who they are and the way they already look,
but they always want to change those things-
wouldn't you be a bit worried that they might try to change you, too?
or worse, get rid of you?
and that, my friends is what will leave us with a sort of humilation we might not deserve to face. the kind of humiliation that comes with not feeling good enough for someone who isn't even good enough for themselves. that's pretty lame, huh?
like, what's the point in trying to be something to someone who can't even be alright with themself? that's fucked up."