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Sep 21, 2004 14:20


Agreed. Disney land was flippin swell. my brother was being crazy the hole time. running into asians "oh hey sir i do believe you just dropped something" and then hed run the other way.. haha it was pretty funny. and he kept saying "ITS NOT MY BRITHDAY! BUT IT SURE FEELS LIKE IT!" after hearing it in line.. haha it was good times and pictures will be updated soon.

So everyone seems to be really happy, and well im glad. Its about time dont you think? I hate this game though, this act of trying to balance everything out. I really dont think people should act like someones friend if they really feel that they aren't. I mean people get in fights and get over it, but if you really feel like this person has cheated you in some way, or is unfaithful in your friendship, then why would you want to call someone like that your friend? People make mistakes, and yes, some of those mistakes can be corrected and forgiven and you move on, im not saying if your mad at them then dont be there friend anymore, im saying that most people dont change, and if you feel that someone has repeadetly made the same mistake over and over again and aren't really trying to make an effort to change that, then its a friendship based on a false sense of hope, and you should give them the benefit of the doubt to tell them that. Theres a difference between being nice, and faking a front so you dont have to deal with conflict. But if you dont want to deal with conflict, then you should just keep your mouth shut to begin with. In my opinion, you shouldn't say something about someone behind their back, if you aren't willing to say it to their face. I know that defeats the hole purpose of whatever it is that your doing, but i mean if you can say it to their face then you really believe it dont you? otherwise it just seems as if your trying to cause a mess. Im not trying to direct this towards anyone, and i know that ive done half the things ive said. Im not perfect i know that, i know ive screwed up countless times, but im not going to sit here and pretend that i havn't either. This is just the way i am viewing things right now. I dont expect you to agree, i just expect you to hear me out.
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