Oct 10, 2005 12:27
I got this thing outta my biBle..I flipped to it out of the blUe last night durin' church , know yaw probly don't care..But it's lyke weird..Lyke Something goOd might be fixin to happen?? 'er Give it time...So ya.
A wise mom once said , "take it as a compliment that other girls think your guy is great , too." Be secure enough to acknowledge their good tastt. If your realtionship is about love , then jealousy can't be part of it.Paul spent the whOle chapter of 1 cOrithians defining love.He is clear to point out that TRUE love is not jealous . Somehow we've confused this and begun to think that if you someone , you are supposed to ac tjealous and possessive.Love is about serving , selflessness , and caring.Arrogance and jealousy are for the insecure.Have faith in Jesus.He will bring the perfect mate for you.Learning to love and trust someone means that you don't worry about who he talks to , or whoe he's in the same room with.If your guy isn't trustoworthy , then he's definitley not the one for you.Don't even start a romantic realtionship with him.Start making Friendships instead of dating.That way you can spend time with different people until you find the one who lines up with your beliefs and values , the one have fun with , the one you love , the one you trust completely.The possibility for boyfriends will come and go.don't give in to the "gotta have a date" mentality.Commit to having holy courtships and let God bring the one He has chosen for you.When it's really about love , jealousy will lose out and trust will win!"
think it's tryin' to tell me anything?!ha!