I hope you don't mind that I added you. I found you on pregnant. I can relate to your story, definitely.
First off, although I'm not sure you think of it in quite such a positive light -- congratulations on your pregnancy.
Second... about me. I had my first daughter at the age of 18. I found out I was pregnant with her when I was about 2 months in to my first semester of college. I, too, was pro-life. And I, too, researched abortion and cried about it, because I knew that wasn't me. My daughter is 6 years old now -- so clearly I decided against abortion. Her dad wasn't around for me during the pregnancy much at all. He's involved in her life now, thankfully, but we split when she was 11 months old.
As far as the father of your babies go... do NOT let him get away with signing over his rights. He's responsible for those children now. It takes two to make a baby. This shouldn't fall entirely on you. It doesn't matter if he's engaged or not. If he's able to play, then he should be able to pay, you know?
I feel for you. If you need someone to talk to, please let me know. And good luck, whatever you decide.
First off, although I'm not sure you think of it in quite such a positive light -- congratulations on your pregnancy.
Second... about me. I had my first daughter at the age of 18. I found out I was pregnant with her when I was about 2 months in to my first semester of college. I, too, was pro-life. And I, too, researched abortion and cried about it, because I knew that wasn't me. My daughter is 6 years old now -- so clearly I decided against abortion. Her dad wasn't around for me during the pregnancy much at all. He's involved in her life now, thankfully, but we split when she was 11 months old.
As far as the father of your babies go... do NOT let him get away with signing over his rights. He's responsible for those children now. It takes two to make a baby. This shouldn't fall entirely on you. It doesn't matter if he's engaged or not. If he's able to play, then he should be able to pay, you know?
I feel for you. If you need someone to talk to, please let me know. And good luck, whatever you decide.
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