Re: You Do Not Know Me:
anonymous
April 15 2004, 11:18:24 UTC
Mindy:
First off, this online journal ordeal is a bit childish and I can't believe I am even on it giving my thoughts to you!
Anyways, I don't know the entire story and it truly isn't my business, but I am making it my business because the one that IS hurting or bothered by it is my sister! She can definitely hold her own, but I am defending her just in case she hasn't said it to you herself!
I heard that a while back (I suppose it was when you started working there) that you guys were going to fight. If you want to be such a mature person, use big words, demand respect and so forth, I can't seem to understand why you haven't said these things to my sister herself? Maybe for the reassurance for her, she may need to know out of your mouth itself that you're not interested in her boyfriend. They've been together almost 3 years, despite the little break-up they did have and both of our families are close- I don't want to see anything ruin that, for my sisters sake! (although they both get on my nerves sometimes!)
You mentioned that I was judging you? By no means am I judging you, I am going by what I am told or have to listen to 24/7... and that can get under someone's skin very easily!
One last thing: If Wes and you were/are such good friends, why would you be two-faced about it (from other posts I read from you) when it comes to him- being mean or having some words of your own to say about him and then the next, acting as if you're wonderful buddies? I don't know, maybe I don't understand the whole situation- but I do know that I want to see my sister happy and if you don't like Wes, I suggest or recommend that you let her know yourself, so things can be done and over with! It's up to you! I am just tired of having to listen to it, I'm sure you can understand that! (None of you guys have anything nice to say about one another, makes my head spin)
-K-
PS. Josh (my husband)and Shannon argue like brother & sister sometimes, but he doesn't like to see her hurt either...
Re: You Do Not Know Me:xmindyxApril 15 2004, 19:32:34 UTC
well.. for one, i never wanted to fight shannon. i heard she wanted to fight me. who knows. i DID talk to her today, and she said that she understands that i don't like him and that i'm not a part of her and wes's problems anymore. i'm sorry if shannon "gets under your skin" by talking about it, but that's not my fault and there's nothing i can do about it. about being "two faced" ... wes knew everything i thought about him. i was really open and honest with him and whenever i wrote something on my journal (which rarely included his name) i told him.. not that i wrote it but that i thought it. i did talk to her today, there's not really much of a problem and it's not really much worth arguing about. i do not like wes as anything more than a friend and everyone can know that.
First off, this online journal ordeal is a bit childish and I can't believe I am even on it giving my thoughts to you!
Anyways, I don't know the entire story and it truly isn't my business, but I am making it my business because the one that IS hurting or bothered by it is my sister! She can definitely hold her own, but I am defending her just in case she hasn't said it to you herself!
I heard that a while back (I suppose it was when you started working there) that you guys were going to fight. If you want to be such a mature person, use big words, demand respect and so forth, I can't seem to understand why you haven't said these things to my sister herself? Maybe for the reassurance for her, she may need to know out of your mouth itself that you're not interested in her boyfriend. They've been together almost 3 years, despite the little break-up they did have and both of our families are close- I don't want to see anything ruin that, for my sisters sake! (although they both get on my nerves sometimes!)
You mentioned that I was judging you? By no means am I judging you, I am going by what I am told or have to listen to 24/7... and that can get under someone's skin very easily!
One last thing: If Wes and you were/are such good friends, why would you be two-faced about it (from other posts I read from you) when it comes to him- being mean or having some words of your own to say about him and then the next, acting as if you're wonderful buddies? I don't know, maybe I don't understand the whole situation- but I do know that I want to see my sister happy and if you don't like Wes, I suggest or recommend that you let her know yourself, so things can be done and over with! It's up to you! I am just tired of having to listen to it, I'm sure you can understand that! (None of you guys have anything nice to say about one another, makes my head spin)
-K-
PS. Josh (my husband)and Shannon argue like brother & sister sometimes, but he doesn't like to see her hurt either...
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i DID talk to her today, and she said that she understands that i don't like him and that i'm not a part of her and wes's problems anymore.
i'm sorry if shannon "gets under your skin" by talking about it, but that's not my fault and there's nothing i can do about it.
about being "two faced" ... wes knew everything i thought about him. i was really open and honest with him and whenever i wrote something on my journal (which rarely included his name) i told him.. not that i wrote it but that i thought it.
i did talk to her today, there's not really much of a problem and it's not really much worth arguing about. i do not like wes as anything more than a friend and everyone can know that.
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