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wow marriage is a wonderful thing. make sure you hardly know the person you marry, it did wonders for our relationship. i really think people who wait years to get married think they've got the right idea, but they don't. during those years you fall out of love, you find more excuses not to get married and i believe it takes a certain amount of courage to keep a relationship strong which ultimately fades after years of bickering about a marriage date. of course i've done little to no research and really am not the most experienced person on the subject, but i know what i've seen and i've seen that relationships really can start to suffer after waiting to commit. i really don't think people get it, if you're scared that someone isn't the right person for you or you don't think you know them well enough, consider this. how scared are you to have sex with that person "you don't know well enough" or "they just might not be right" if you're screwing them then it should be obvious that there's a certain amount of chemistry... or you're just easy.