Jun 25, 2004 11:34
In the event that you ever want mention something to me, don't.
And if I'm friends with both parties involved, really don't.
I make mistakes often, some are big, some are small.
I guess it depends on who's side of the fence you are on wether it's a big or small one. But from up on this fence it's a shakey walk to either side. So, sometimes i have to get some help.
How do you not break one friends trust, while trying to make sure that you don't break anothers? It's a fine line to walk.
when things are said in confidence, they should remain there. But, what if the information goes against EVERYTHING you know about a person. should you not check facts? What if the information is bad? What if people aren't telling the entire truth? What if the information IS correct, and other friends are being lied directly to their faces for MONTHS. How fair is that? so, I guess, I fucked up. but, I'm not the only one who fucked up. In turn, nobody tell me anything if I am friends with the other person. I won't be able to decide what is slander and what is truth.
I never know. and don't know if I ever will.