hey danielle! i know how you feel, because i'm going through a mini version of that right now, but that's a long story. so, i will definately give you all the "encouraging words" i can.
yeah, so you and kevin loved eachother? love is being there for eachother whenever, wherever. no matter how extreme or how little the reason is for needing someone. obviously, kevin isn't there for you right now, so you were not the perfect couple. middle school relationships hardly ever last. it's rare if it does. you say you love eachother, but maybe you were just caught up in the fact that you had a boyfriend. there is most definatetly the perfect guy out there for you. maybe it's just not kevin. there will be lots of guys coming in and out of your life and not all of the relationships with them will last. but just remember that some day, that special guy will come and you will be in *true* love, get married, and be happy. i know you're crushed now, but 20 years from now when you are married and seriously in love, will you even remember kevin? or how sad you are now? probably not... i just want you to know that no matter what your family and friends will be there for you, every step of the way. i guess i should also be saying this to myself. i mean, i wasn't going out with him, but yeah... once again, it's a long story. God will always be with us, no matter what. so, we just have to move on, because life is too short to be sad about something like this. i hope this is good advice for you because just writing this has made me realize everything i just told you. if he doesn't love you, then you definately deserve better. you'll find someone who loves you for you. don't worry. i just know it. <33
yeah, so you and kevin loved eachother? love is being there for eachother whenever, wherever. no matter how extreme or how little the reason is for needing someone. obviously, kevin isn't there for you right now, so you were not the perfect couple. middle school relationships hardly ever last. it's rare if it does. you say you love eachother, but maybe you were just caught up in the fact that you had a boyfriend. there is most definatetly the perfect guy out there for you. maybe it's just not kevin. there will be lots of guys coming in and out of your life and not all of the relationships with them will last. but just remember that some day, that special guy will come and you will be in *true* love, get married, and be happy. i know you're crushed now, but 20 years from now when you are married and seriously in love, will you even remember kevin? or how sad you are now? probably not... i just want you to know that no matter what your family and friends will be there for you, every step of the way. i guess i should also be saying this to myself. i mean, i wasn't going out with him, but yeah... once again, it's a long story. God will always be with us, no matter what. so, we just have to move on, because life is too short to be sad about something like this. i hope this is good advice for you because just writing this has made me realize everything i just told you. if he doesn't love you, then you definately deserve better. you'll find someone who loves you for you. don't worry. i just know it. <33
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