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Apr 30, 2006 20:13

what do you do when you feel like you need help, professional emotional help.. and you have no health insurance. Is there anything out there for people in my situation? I honestly feel like giving up, Im so tired of fighting and putting up with his BS and pretending Im ok when Im not. No one understands me or what Im going through. I wish I could ( Read more... )

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muffinlegs May 1 2006, 19:10:21 UTC

the hospital I had andrew at had several links to free post partum depression counseling numbers to call. look around. ask a doctor. tell your husband to start working, hahaha.

xjessx May 2 2006, 18:02:29 UTC

Thanks for the ideas. I filled out a few applications for Chris I really hope one of them works out. Its so hard to motivate him when I feel like crap, you know? Plus it can be really intimidating when your job hunting. Here I go again making excuses for him! Bah!

muffinlegs May 2 2006, 18:04:44 UTC

maybe you could work, did you ever think of that?

xjessx May 2 2006, 18:17:21 UTC

Yes, definately. I miss my job at wakemed sooo much! I miss my friends there and the money... the thing is... I dont want to put Riley in daycare. How do you feel about having Andrew in daycare? Have you had any problems? Im scared someone else will get to experience her "firsts" you know? I guess that's silly. Maybe when she gets a little bigger my dad could watch her while I work but I dont think he would be able to handle it right now.

muffinlegs May 2 2006, 19:43:59 UTC

andrew has a nanny.
there are no daycare germs, none of that too many kids to watch at one time crap, he gets hands on attention, and love. he is so happy, and fits right in at their home as if he were part of their family.

the nanny is a stay at home mom, the wife of a pastor, they have 2 kids and they are both in school during the day. it couldnt be better.

its 700 a month.

dont do daycare.
it is scary, costs a ton, you child will always be sick, and they will do everything wrong because there are so many kids.

i paid 1500 a month for andrew to be at bright horizons daycare last year, and it was awful, and i would NOT reccomend it to anyone.

have you considered maybe watching another baby?
you are home during the day anyway. that extra money would be awesome.

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