Back to the basics
So I did some talking to people I trust and value their opinion and I came to this conclusion. Although it hurts to be lied to, I know Chris and he does NOT have it in him to intentionally hurt me. He just made a stupid mistake. A few stupid mistakes. I've made my share, thats for sure. This marriage thing is going to take alot of work and patience. We aren't just indivuals anymore we are an 'us' I will do things that will hurt him unintentionally and vice versa but we'll learn from it if we can learn to communicate. I was thinking back to our wedding and how the lady that married us read this.. and what it means.
Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful;
it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends; as for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
For our knowledge is imperfect and our prophecy is imperfect;
but when the perfect comes, the imperfect will pass away.
When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became a man, I gave up childish ways.
For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall understand fully, even as I have been fully understood.
So faith, hope, love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13
Everything is going to be ok.
Please, somehow let us find the patience to understand each other.
Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful;
it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends; as for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
For our knowledge is imperfect and our prophecy is imperfect;
but when the perfect comes, the imperfect will pass away.
When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became a man, I gave up childish ways.
For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall understand fully, even as I have been fully understood.
So faith, hope, love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13
Everything is going to be ok.
Please, somehow let us find the patience to understand each other.