i've decided that i need more friends on this thing. or else..it'll just be useless and boring and all my rants and questions will never be answered
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wow, thats a loaded question. I'll go over the pros and cons, maybe it'll help you decide hearing it from another person.
The pros of staying at school:
You only have a month left, then you can find another roomate. When worst comes to worst you could always study at the library. Its what you're used to, screwing up your routine might throw you off for the end of the semester.
Cons:
Your roomate seems like a drama queen. She also seems selfish. She also has access to your sleeping quarters. (thats not cool when you dorm with someone you don't like) If she's really screwing up your school work its a bad time for that. With the end of the semester in sight teachers will be piling on the work not to mention those looming finals.
Now on to living with your friends:
Pros:
Living with your friends can be really rewarding. Who knows what kind of fun you can all have. Living with your girlfriend can prove to be amazing too. I know i'd live with kaia if it was possible. How does that commercial go? "Living with your spouse is like having a sleepover with your best friends everynight" It'd literally be both. When you're in a bind, having your friends nearby can be invaluable. This could also be a chance for you to get really close with your gf. It'll help you see your relationship in an all new light.
Cons: your friends/girlfriend will be there. I know its also a pro but you have to remember they will be there...ALL THE TIME. Everybody needs some personal space now and then. living with your friends in such tight space may prove to be negative on your relationships. If you move in you have to make sure that there is some place you can go to escape even if its just for a little while. Like I said before i love my friends, but there are some who i couldn't deal with seeing every day. Will you be able to concentrate on your studies any more at the house with the temptation of your friends being nearby?
So What should you do? i'm not sure. It depends on the type of relationship you have with your friends + what you feel the most comfortable with divided by how unbearable dorm life has become.
I can tell you what i would do though. I'd move in with my friends. Its another step towards independence and a chance to be with people i love all the time. Hopefully that helped a little. I feel like i said a lot without saying anything.
The pros of staying at school:
You only have a month left, then you can find another roomate.
When worst comes to worst you could always study at the library.
Its what you're used to, screwing up your routine might throw you off for the end of the semester.
Cons:
Your roomate seems like a drama queen.
She also seems selfish.
She also has access to your sleeping quarters. (thats not cool when you dorm with someone you don't like)
If she's really screwing up your school work its a bad time for that. With the end of the semester in sight teachers will be piling on the work not to mention those looming finals.
Now on to living with your friends:
Pros:
Living with your friends can be really rewarding. Who knows what kind of fun you can all have.
Living with your girlfriend can prove to be amazing too. I know i'd live with kaia if it was possible. How does that commercial go? "Living with your spouse is like having a sleepover with your best friends everynight" It'd literally be both.
When you're in a bind, having your friends nearby can be invaluable.
This could also be a chance for you to get really close with your gf. It'll help you see your relationship in an all new light.
Cons: your friends/girlfriend will be there. I know its also a pro but you have to remember they will be there...ALL THE TIME. Everybody needs some personal space now and then. living with your friends in such tight space may prove to be negative on your relationships. If you move in you have to make sure that there is some place you can go to escape even if its just for a little while. Like I said before i love my friends, but there are some who i couldn't deal with seeing every day.
Will you be able to concentrate on your studies any more at the house with the temptation of your friends being nearby?
So What should you do? i'm not sure. It depends on the type of relationship you have with your friends + what you feel the most comfortable with divided by how unbearable dorm life has become.
I can tell you what i would do though. I'd move in with my friends. Its another step towards independence and a chance to be with people i love all the time. Hopefully that helped a little. I feel like i said a lot without saying anything.
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