Dec 16, 2002 16:00
Ok in all essence of what it is to live in this world. Many of the common dictates in the world are things that you chose to abide by. Being spoonfed something your whole life doesn't meant it is right. That choice no matter what is yours to make. Much like the samarai that decision should be made with in the extent of a breadth. Any thing longer and you become confused or lost. No drama no great loss or gain except that it is done. If some one is not able to help them self then how can anything you do for them make it all right? It cann't because they have learned nothing except to depend on you. This lesson learned many times over.
Here is a story about one such situation.
"When first starting out firebreathing there was a fellow that I treated as a student in many things than just the flame. He was yung a little dumb and definantly full of alot of cum...Seeing as he had recently turned 21 he was really enjoying drinking, "I don't get hang overs". During a long term perfomance at a faire I took it upon myself to care for him, since he seemed unable to do so, to make sure that he didn't get himself hurt or in to tomuch trouble. He would then proceed to drink to the point of slobering drunk. More because He had a care taker than before. At one point he got so drunk that he was falling down on the ground in the mud. He was taken home by some of the other performers. He then proceeded to lye down on the floor and roll around on there floor all muddy. The next day they chewed him out and like qa dog he bowed his head down and apologized" I AM sorry" The next weekend he got trashed and did some other things that I prefer not to get into for it would require more story telling. ... :) Finally I gave up trying to help but I also quit letting him drink from my cup to(literaly). This seemed to jar him a bit and didn't seem to get drunk much for the rest of that fair. Later on he started doing the same thing at a couple of other overnite performances. He had the gaul to expect me to care for him and to alow him to drink my loki. He was informed that he was band from the my cup and would no longer recieve care from me. That night he went out and got drunk more than usual some to spite me because he tried to rub it in by telling me he didn't need my drink and some other shit I barely recall now. Last I heared he is still the same way and has yet to learn his lesson. "
No matter weather you are trying to do the right thing you cann't just change some one or something that is a part of them .It is there actions, choices and habbits that make them who they are. We all have bad habbits. The only person who can change those thing is themself. Hope this makes better since.