update
so i havent updated in forever as you can tell my userpic is still a picture of Kiley in my tummy, and she is now 3 months old. things have been going pretty well for me, things are great between me and lance and we couldn't of asked for a better baby. my friends are amazing and have helped out a lot and i dont know what i would do without them in my life. that goes out to each and everyone of you and you know who you are :)
now i just wanted to get something out there for everyone to know, there's a lot of people out there who doubt my marriage with lance.they believe it is going to fail by basing our marriage on statistics. there were even some who didn't believe we would make it this far, and it really bothers me that this society believes that way today. we are in love and i know in my heart he is the only one who can truly make me happy and i would not change one thing about him or our rough past because it only made us that much stronger. we may be young and we may have a lot of obstacles to overcome but i believe we'll make it through it all and if you have a problem with that i suggest you dont waste your time worrying about us and move on to more important things.