"There are certain people you love who do something else; they define how you classify what love is supposed to feel like/ these are the most important people in your life, and you'll meet maybe four or five of these people over the span of 80years. but theres still one more tier to all this; there is always one person you love who becomes that definition. it usually happens retrospectively, but it always happens eventually. this is the person who unkowinly sets the template for what you will always love about other people, even if some of those lovable qualities are self destructive and unreasonable."