My True Feelings About Matt/Amy/Adam.
OK. *DEEP BREATH* I have a few honest things to say about this rather than just "Edge is a prick" and "Lita is a slutbag."
I have to say I'm sickened that there are people who are blaming Matt for this, not to mention condoning Amy and Adam's behavior. I just want to say that I don't believe cheating in any way is right. Firstly, I highly doubt Amy & Adam fell in love, and even if they did, break up with your boyfriend and wife before screwing each other. I do not believe there is ANY justification for what either of them did. I do not care if Amy and Adam gave into "temptation" from being on the road all the time away from their significant other... it's called self control. People can live without having sex for weeks at a time... so why couldn't they? Because they don't care about anyone but themselves that's why. Someone has said it was something their bodies couldn't control... well excuse me but your body doesn't just have sex without your mind's permission. This isn't Cinemax... people don't just bump into each other and have sex.
The next thing I want to address is people calling Matt a "BABY" for airing their dirty laundry on the internet. Firstly, I don't think Matt did anything wrong. Those of us with sites often share our feelings, break-ups and happy/sad moments on the net with virtual strangers, just because he's "famous" doesn't mean he doesn't have the same feelings and the same right to do so that the rest of us do. Also, Matt was being badgered to death about why he had removed Amy's photos from the website. Rumors were flying around and the best way to squash rumors is to tell the truth. He was simply telling everyone for the fact that they would find out ANYWAY and most likely twist the entire thing around to where it was not even recognizable as truth. No one complained when Matt posted happy times in their relationship on the internet, which is still their personal life, you're all just angry that he basically told the world what some of us already knew: Amy is a skank.
Amy broke Matt's heart. Adam cheated on yet another wife. The only thing I have to blame Matt for in this is that he basically knew Amy's past of sleeping around and chose to trust her anyways. I always have and always will be a Matt Hardy fan, and just because I don't like Amy doesn't mean I'm posting this because I don't like her, it's because I don't respect people who do these things. I used to like Adam A LOT until recently I haven't liked his character and have believed he is a shitty wrestler, but that has nothing to do with how I feel about this situation. I've met Adam many times and always thought him to be nice, but now I've lost all respect for him as a person. Anyone who betrays their friend's trust for sex with some ho is not a respectable person in my book.
Last but not least, please do not tell me that this is Amy's personal life and I shouldn't lose any respect for her as a person because of this. You all respect her as a person because of her work with ADORE or other things she has achieved personally, so don't tell me it's ok to respect her as a person for her personal life, but it is not ok to lose respect for her because of her personal life. That is a double standard, and really stupid.
Everytime I see Lita, Edge or hear anything about this I feel incredibly sick for Matt Hardy and for those who think he did this for some kind of stupid sympathy from the fans... FUCK YOU.
I have to say I'm sickened that there are people who are blaming Matt for this, not to mention condoning Amy and Adam's behavior. I just want to say that I don't believe cheating in any way is right. Firstly, I highly doubt Amy & Adam fell in love, and even if they did, break up with your boyfriend and wife before screwing each other. I do not believe there is ANY justification for what either of them did. I do not care if Amy and Adam gave into "temptation" from being on the road all the time away from their significant other... it's called self control. People can live without having sex for weeks at a time... so why couldn't they? Because they don't care about anyone but themselves that's why. Someone has said it was something their bodies couldn't control... well excuse me but your body doesn't just have sex without your mind's permission. This isn't Cinemax... people don't just bump into each other and have sex.
The next thing I want to address is people calling Matt a "BABY" for airing their dirty laundry on the internet. Firstly, I don't think Matt did anything wrong. Those of us with sites often share our feelings, break-ups and happy/sad moments on the net with virtual strangers, just because he's "famous" doesn't mean he doesn't have the same feelings and the same right to do so that the rest of us do. Also, Matt was being badgered to death about why he had removed Amy's photos from the website. Rumors were flying around and the best way to squash rumors is to tell the truth. He was simply telling everyone for the fact that they would find out ANYWAY and most likely twist the entire thing around to where it was not even recognizable as truth. No one complained when Matt posted happy times in their relationship on the internet, which is still their personal life, you're all just angry that he basically told the world what some of us already knew: Amy is a skank.
Amy broke Matt's heart. Adam cheated on yet another wife. The only thing I have to blame Matt for in this is that he basically knew Amy's past of sleeping around and chose to trust her anyways. I always have and always will be a Matt Hardy fan, and just because I don't like Amy doesn't mean I'm posting this because I don't like her, it's because I don't respect people who do these things. I used to like Adam A LOT until recently I haven't liked his character and have believed he is a shitty wrestler, but that has nothing to do with how I feel about this situation. I've met Adam many times and always thought him to be nice, but now I've lost all respect for him as a person. Anyone who betrays their friend's trust for sex with some ho is not a respectable person in my book.
Last but not least, please do not tell me that this is Amy's personal life and I shouldn't lose any respect for her as a person because of this. You all respect her as a person because of her work with ADORE or other things she has achieved personally, so don't tell me it's ok to respect her as a person for her personal life, but it is not ok to lose respect for her because of her personal life. That is a double standard, and really stupid.
Everytime I see Lita, Edge or hear anything about this I feel incredibly sick for Matt Hardy and for those who think he did this for some kind of stupid sympathy from the fans... FUCK YOU.