i dont know exactly how to help - but this HAS happened to me before. And seriously, i STILL dont know what they feel.
there was this guy, and he and I were - and are really close. We flirted alot and he said alot of nice things to me and really made me feel special. deep down i thot there was something, but i never said a word. We both kinda just stayed close - and that was that. Over the years i've grown to know him a little more. He's even told me that "flirting dosn't mean anything" and i have had to wonder if thats how he felt a few years ago. we are still close friends and we keep in touch and he still tells me im pretty and its still nice to hear. I dont have feelings for him anymore and i know he dosnt have them for me for sure. And that dosnt mean ur friend will stop having feelings for that *special* one. FOr all i know they could stay close. My advice - i think they should remain friends. eventually the topic will come up. wether they bring it up or not it will most likly come up. Then you can come out with the "how i feel"stuff or whatever (they'll know at that time).It'll also be easier because they dont see them b/c of the distance. I think it would be easier to know that ur friend and *mr.special* r close and nothing will change at this point - rather than thinking "my boyfriend could be looking at some girl right now or cheeting on me" even if it isnt true, the thot mite cross the mind. Let things roll right now. Everything will work out. they dont have to take my advice, but i hope it helped a little.
there was this guy, and he and I were - and are really close. We flirted alot and he said alot of nice things to me and really made me feel special. deep down i thot there was something, but i never said a word. We both kinda just stayed close - and that was that. Over the years i've grown to know him a little more. He's even told me that "flirting dosn't mean anything" and i have had to wonder if thats how he felt a few years ago. we are still close friends and we keep in touch and he still tells me im pretty and its still nice to hear. I dont have feelings for him anymore and i know he dosnt have them for me for sure. And that dosnt mean ur friend will stop having feelings for that *special* one. FOr all i know they could stay close. My advice - i think they should remain friends. eventually the topic will come up. wether they bring it up or not it will most likly come up. Then you can come out with the "how i feel"stuff or whatever (they'll know at that time).It'll also be easier because they dont see them b/c of the distance. I think it would be easier to know that ur friend and *mr.special* r close and nothing will change at this point - rather than thinking "my boyfriend could be looking at some girl right now or cheeting on me" even if it isnt true, the thot mite cross the mind. Let things roll right now. Everything will work out. they dont have to take my advice, but i hope it helped a little.
sorry this was really long.
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