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It has been nearly been 6 months since i last wrote in this thing, but i had a little piece of work i wanted to throw in and see if it got any critisism
“Why think about romance and devotion, when the whole story is pleasure and safety?”
This question was the first to really stick out at me, because it is too true. Very few people in the society of today find sex to be an important experience that should only be shared with those we love; just that word “love” is misused. Sex is looked upon as an activity that creates pleasure and nothing more. The common teenager of today doesn’t view sex as a union of two people who love each other. Not even a brief moment of our lives where two become one, but more so as a past time activity with their current boyfriend/girlfriend or even fling. Even though I am part of the male sex I will blame this mostly upon us. We celebrate those primitive creatures that will lie; you may even call it brainwash, women into “knowing they love you”, and you “loving” them. With each woman we unionize ourselves with we celebrate more and more as the number increases and discard them like nothing more than the same contraceptives we use while seducing them. Even though I can blame most of this upon men I must blame the women in some sense. WOMEN! You watch this man do this over and over again and yet still find your self attracted to them only to fall for the same tricks your fellow woman has fallen for! Why?! You accept the fact you are used like a piece of meat and treat the situation almost at horribly as the men. We constantly tell ourselves “it is ok I will make him use a condom, or its fine I am on the pill” but in reality we should be asking ourselves, “Do I love him? Is he someone I can really see myself with for a long time?” We should not celebrate sex as something we all need to do before marriage nor should we even let it become a variable to relationships we hold. Sex may be a great experience, but after something is abused it loses its value and loses its energy. We only find ourselves bored with our marriage because we were diverse in our sex relationships prior to our marriage. TRUTH! Sex is one-hundred times better shared with someone you truly love, than another common male/female with common tricks.
i want you people that think "your young and just having fun" or the others that say "if someone really loves me they wont care about how many people i have slept with" to really read this and think about it. i honestly find this to be the most accurate beliefs i hold after experience of such situations. BEING IN LOVE DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD HAVE SEX! SEX IS SOMETHING SPECIAL AND CAN TRUELY RUIN A RELATIONSHIP!
i am not religous in any way, ask the people that really know me they'll tell you. sex is more than fucking or a pleasure of your penis and vagina....honestly think about that
“Why think about romance and devotion, when the whole story is pleasure and safety?”
This question was the first to really stick out at me, because it is too true. Very few people in the society of today find sex to be an important experience that should only be shared with those we love; just that word “love” is misused. Sex is looked upon as an activity that creates pleasure and nothing more. The common teenager of today doesn’t view sex as a union of two people who love each other. Not even a brief moment of our lives where two become one, but more so as a past time activity with their current boyfriend/girlfriend or even fling. Even though I am part of the male sex I will blame this mostly upon us. We celebrate those primitive creatures that will lie; you may even call it brainwash, women into “knowing they love you”, and you “loving” them. With each woman we unionize ourselves with we celebrate more and more as the number increases and discard them like nothing more than the same contraceptives we use while seducing them. Even though I can blame most of this upon men I must blame the women in some sense. WOMEN! You watch this man do this over and over again and yet still find your self attracted to them only to fall for the same tricks your fellow woman has fallen for! Why?! You accept the fact you are used like a piece of meat and treat the situation almost at horribly as the men. We constantly tell ourselves “it is ok I will make him use a condom, or its fine I am on the pill” but in reality we should be asking ourselves, “Do I love him? Is he someone I can really see myself with for a long time?” We should not celebrate sex as something we all need to do before marriage nor should we even let it become a variable to relationships we hold. Sex may be a great experience, but after something is abused it loses its value and loses its energy. We only find ourselves bored with our marriage because we were diverse in our sex relationships prior to our marriage. TRUTH! Sex is one-hundred times better shared with someone you truly love, than another common male/female with common tricks.
i want you people that think "your young and just having fun" or the others that say "if someone really loves me they wont care about how many people i have slept with" to really read this and think about it. i honestly find this to be the most accurate beliefs i hold after experience of such situations. BEING IN LOVE DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD HAVE SEX! SEX IS SOMETHING SPECIAL AND CAN TRUELY RUIN A RELATIONSHIP!
i am not religous in any way, ask the people that really know me they'll tell you. sex is more than fucking or a pleasure of your penis and vagina....honestly think about that