how much people change these days
So this is LJ.... again.
People change when things happen to them, some for better some for worse. Some people can handle changes in their friends lives, and some cant. Those who cant decide that its better to just leave said friend and live their own life because thats the easy way out. thats the problem with people these days. so many things change people negatively and its ridiculous how much it changes them. For example, getting a boyfriend or a girlfriend... its like suddenly people just dont have time for you as a friend anymore. Or maybe they just think you talk about specific things too much. maybe they get annoyed and tired of hearing the same things day in and day out... which is understandable i guess. but then the two people just stop being friends. thats lame. theres no reason a problem like that cant be solved by just talking about it, but instead the person is afraid that it'll just happen again and so that just ditch out all together.
No matter how many problems a friend tells me and no matter how many times they tell me about it, it would never get to the point where i just think to myself.... maybe ill stop talking to this person and make them feel like shit. If someone doesnt call when they say they will or hang out when they say they can, its called talking people. you talk through your issues... you dont abandon them.
People who just ditch their friends because they feel like its easier that way and their lives are just TOO difficult with them in it deserve to see real hardship. Its like "OMG he/she is telling me the same problem again!!!! thats right up there with genocide and terrorist bombings@!!!!!$!@#$!@#!@$!@#$!#%$!#%!$^@!#%^&@$^&#$^*@^"
yea im done. wooooo LJ
People change when things happen to them, some for better some for worse. Some people can handle changes in their friends lives, and some cant. Those who cant decide that its better to just leave said friend and live their own life because thats the easy way out. thats the problem with people these days. so many things change people negatively and its ridiculous how much it changes them. For example, getting a boyfriend or a girlfriend... its like suddenly people just dont have time for you as a friend anymore. Or maybe they just think you talk about specific things too much. maybe they get annoyed and tired of hearing the same things day in and day out... which is understandable i guess. but then the two people just stop being friends. thats lame. theres no reason a problem like that cant be solved by just talking about it, but instead the person is afraid that it'll just happen again and so that just ditch out all together.
No matter how many problems a friend tells me and no matter how many times they tell me about it, it would never get to the point where i just think to myself.... maybe ill stop talking to this person and make them feel like shit. If someone doesnt call when they say they will or hang out when they say they can, its called talking people. you talk through your issues... you dont abandon them.
People who just ditch their friends because they feel like its easier that way and their lives are just TOO difficult with them in it deserve to see real hardship. Its like "OMG he/she is telling me the same problem again!!!! thats right up there with genocide and terrorist bombings@!!!!!$!@#$!@#!@$!@#$!#%$!#%!$^@!#%^&@$^&#$^*@^"
yea im done. wooooo LJ