Oct 21, 2005 22:55
I wish I wasn't too shy or scared sometimes to ask people if I can go with them somewhere...but the only reason for that is because they're too polite to say no if I asked, so if they didn't want me there, they wouldn't tell me. Therefore, I reason that if they want me there they will ask. When they don't, I make assumptions. I hope you all are following me on this and don't think I'm crazy or anything. And then if I do ask, and they give an indirect answer, such as an answer that isn't a yes, I assume that it's a polite way of saying "no". Am I like...way off in my logic or something? That's just how I think I guess. :-\