Suffocating me.

Jun 12, 2004 16:28

Sometimes we do things, just to be nice. Just so someone else can be happy. What happens when that wears on us to a breaking point. One in which were not happy but even though thats never really mattered, now it seems to. Sometimes we think these feelings wrong. Shameful even. There have been times this summer, when I feel that I really just need ( Read more... )

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anonymous June 13 2004, 20:05:29 UTC
This is an fairly in-depth anilizaion of your very incorrect ASSUMTIONS and UNBACKED OPINIONS mr./ms.anonymous:

Completely wrong statement. Those facts used have allow no backing of your accusation of narcissim, i'll get to narcissim later. Also to think and be aware of one's self does not mean that one is self-centered. The fact that one would feel burdened yet still "helps another soul out" would be grounds that one is more of a friend that others.

Mostly wrong, lots of assumtions. First of all maybe one feels peace through isolation. Although isolation is a defense mechanism there is nothing wrong with it, but when the defense mechanisms begin to cause other problesm it does. There is nothing wrong with being dramatic. It is just a way for one express themselves, some people need to tell everything about what happened as a way to "seek peace". The "sheltering your thoughts" is kind of an assumtion, altough it could be completely wrong. It could be a way of caring and compassion to not want to have someone hurt, or it could be a way for one not make themselves seen wrongly in the eyes of others (as you are by posting anonymously). Also one can accept advise but that dosent mean they have to use the advise. Once again assumtions. For the ending i can only say the same as before, an "iffy" comment. But if the previous one was completely wrong then the same follows here, saying that they are compassionate and probably think beyond themselves and are self-sacrificing. Now some people are not as self-sacrificing as others, i will admit. But drawing a line means nothing other than you feel insecure and/or not confident about what one would sacrifice themselves for. Just because one sacrifices everything dosent mean that they are a good friend, they could even sacrifice your frienship.

There is no grounds to call this person narcissistic, let alone a bitch, actually i find evidence to for the opposite. Also if you plan to use a word such as "naracissm" make sure you can spell it first and that you know what it means, other than a dictionary's definiton, ( http://narcissism.homestead.com/ntype.html ). Also narcissism in a morbid fasion is kind of unrelated and a bit of a stretch. Once again, no grounds for statement. And there will always be "friends" is you have something to offer that covers up for negative traits, but i wont get into a discussion of false security.

In summary, take a reality check. You have no grounds to make an assumtion, not knowing anything about what you are talking about (psycology), bitch.

As a way to counter-act any backlash, that i can think of right now, from mr./mrs. anonymous:
I do know quite a bit about psycology, as you dont seem to. So please dont psycoanalize unless you know what you are talking about.
although i am posting anonymously as well, my lj account is nortonantivirus, please go there.
and im sorry if i offended you, but im just a self-sacrificing kind of person :P

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deaths_solace June 13 2004, 23:38:06 UTC
i am going to simply agree with the extremely intelligible nortonantivirus. how can you pass ridicule on a sweet girl you don't know i love you hun, don't listen to fuckers like whoever that was. and to whoever, a shallow heart leads to a shallow mind.

Yas

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anonymous June 14 2004, 11:17:35 UTC
You simply are a bitch Yasmeen.

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anonymous June 14 2004, 11:16:16 UTC
Do not attempt to use the word psychoanalyze unless you can spell it Nortonantivirus.

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