~just some meme.
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From dreamy2b:
1) What are your favorite indoor and outdoor activities?
Indoor: sleeping. Yeah, totally. Then cooking (and eating too ;D)
Outdoor: playing basketball! And walking! I have a feeling that I could walk everywhere. Laying on the grass and staring at the stars. Seating on the bench and feeding the ducks. As long as it’s not raining I’m good with almost everything ;D
2) How do you deal with anger/frustration?
I’m not the type of person who can easily fall into anger. I’m rather ‘I don’t care at all’ person. But if I get angry I’ll swear a lot. Badly. Ears hurt. Or when I’m at home I just listen to some ‘angry’ music and sing. Quite loudly. Or listen to ‘happy’ music and just dance. And when I’m really frustrated (+ hurt) I just cry. Of course not in front of people.
3) Are you a believer in Schadenfreude?
(Ha ha, I had to google this one :D) Well… I believe there are some people who are happy because of others misfortune. I’m the type of person who is happy when others are happy and sad when others are.
4) Would you rather have an amazing relationship and terrible sex, or amazing sex and a terrible relationship? XPPP
Amazing relationship and terrible sex. Why? Because it’s easier to learn your partner how s/he should act during sex to give you both pleasure than to change someone and make them care about you. (I really liked that kinky question xD)
5) Which do you find more satisfying: success (I.e. external approval or exceeding an external expectation) or achievement (I.e. internal approval or exceeding an internal expectation)? In short, are you more fulfilled having met others’ ideals or your own?
First of all I have to say I’m a terrible person. If I was making something for myself I don’t care if I made it or I didn’t. I’m cool enough for even trying. So yeah, I’m more fulfilled having met others’ ideals. But it’s not like: ‘oh I have to make this so XYZ will be proud of me’. If someone helped me achieve some goal - teach me, train me, work with me- I’d be more than happy when I achieve this goal (and I’d feel terrible if I didn’t - because this person devoted their time to help me and I just failed >.<)
If I want to achieve something I’ll do my best to fulfill this. And that makes me happy. But seeing other’s person smile and knowing that I, my actions are reason for this smile, for this pride - that’s the best feeling in the word. Success > achievement.
• I'll respond by asking you five questions so I can get to know you better.
• Update your journal with the answers to the questions.
• Include this explanation in the post and offer to ask other people questions (but only if you want to).
From dreamy2b:
1) What are your favorite indoor and outdoor activities?
Indoor: sleeping. Yeah, totally. Then cooking (and eating too ;D)
Outdoor: playing basketball! And walking! I have a feeling that I could walk everywhere. Laying on the grass and staring at the stars. Seating on the bench and feeding the ducks. As long as it’s not raining I’m good with almost everything ;D
2) How do you deal with anger/frustration?
I’m not the type of person who can easily fall into anger. I’m rather ‘I don’t care at all’ person. But if I get angry I’ll swear a lot. Badly. Ears hurt. Or when I’m at home I just listen to some ‘angry’ music and sing. Quite loudly. Or listen to ‘happy’ music and just dance. And when I’m really frustrated (+ hurt) I just cry. Of course not in front of people.
3) Are you a believer in Schadenfreude?
(Ha ha, I had to google this one :D) Well… I believe there are some people who are happy because of others misfortune. I’m the type of person who is happy when others are happy and sad when others are.
4) Would you rather have an amazing relationship and terrible sex, or amazing sex and a terrible relationship? XPPP
Amazing relationship and terrible sex. Why? Because it’s easier to learn your partner how s/he should act during sex to give you both pleasure than to change someone and make them care about you. (I really liked that kinky question xD)
5) Which do you find more satisfying: success (I.e. external approval or exceeding an external expectation) or achievement (I.e. internal approval or exceeding an internal expectation)? In short, are you more fulfilled having met others’ ideals or your own?
First of all I have to say I’m a terrible person. If I was making something for myself I don’t care if I made it or I didn’t. I’m cool enough for even trying. So yeah, I’m more fulfilled having met others’ ideals. But it’s not like: ‘oh I have to make this so XYZ will be proud of me’. If someone helped me achieve some goal - teach me, train me, work with me- I’d be more than happy when I achieve this goal (and I’d feel terrible if I didn’t - because this person devoted their time to help me and I just failed >.<)
If I want to achieve something I’ll do my best to fulfill this. And that makes me happy. But seeing other’s person smile and knowing that I, my actions are reason for this smile, for this pride - that’s the best feeling in the word. Success > achievement.