Honestly, don't let this anon fuck bother you. Thou shall not judge and all that.
BUT I will say that my husband and I lived in an emotionally and sometimes physically abusive relationship for more years than we should have. It took a toll on my oldest daughter, who developed nervous habits and suffers from bouts of rage to this day. She is 10. And it's our fault that we subjected her to that kind of thing growing up. She is doing great today because we entered into counseling, and decided we'd rather not be together if we subjected our children to the voilence that was in our home.
I personally think you need to tell Pete that enough is enough. If he can't respect you and your child, he needs to leave. Your self esteem will not improve in these conditions, and I think you are a smart, beautiful woman that has so many options at her feet. You can do this, you deserve this, and so does your baby boy. It's hard, I know, but hopefully you can all work through this and have the family you all deserve.
exactly! of course it will affect how her child views and treats women for the rest of his life if his mother is being treated like that... there is no reason to lie about it. and the reason this is anon is because i don't want to deal with all your cronies jumping down my throat for telling the truth ignore it as much as you would like what i have to say and i will say no more about it here BUT IT IS TRUE and you are screwing your child's mind up by living in an emotional minefield! but i am sure you can rationalize it all away can't you junkies are good at that
and i do know something about it because i was raised in an atmosphere exactly like that and have had 20 years of therapy trying to get the angry voices to stop... it has effected every relationship i have ever had no i have no children cause i did NOT want to do that to them but really how can you justify letting a poor helpless baby be expossed to your petty childlike fighting beleive me it affects them before they ever can verbalize it or show any outside symptoms at all if your therapist isn't telling you that shit then you are getting hosed but anyway attack me for defending your child because you won't i won't make that mistake again here
real caring that you are amused by this you are hopeless even dumb animals have a protective instinct for their children you choose to be amused and just let this go on ps there is more than one anon. here
i am amused by the fact you are so hellbent on insulting someone you dont even know.im not amused at my problems,im amused by YOU. the difference between you and i is that im very open about the things ive done,i dont hide behind an anonymous label.how do you know what junkies go through?do you think i am insulted by being called a junkie,i freely admit that i am a recovered heroin addict with 16 months clean,even though i am clean,i am a junkie.
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BUT I will say that my husband and I lived in an emotionally and sometimes physically abusive relationship for more years than we should have. It took a toll on my oldest daughter, who developed nervous habits and suffers from bouts of rage to this day. She is 10. And it's our fault that we subjected her to that kind of thing growing up. She is doing great today because we entered into counseling, and decided we'd rather not be together if we subjected our children to the voilence that was in our home.
I personally think you need to tell Pete that enough is enough. If he can't respect you and your child, he needs to leave. Your self esteem will not improve in these conditions, and I think you are a smart, beautiful woman that has so many options at her feet. You can do this, you deserve this, and so does your baby boy. It's hard, I know, but hopefully you can all work through this and have the family you all deserve.
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there is no reason to lie about it.
and the reason this is anon is because i don't want to deal with all your cronies jumping down my throat for telling the truth
ignore it as much as you would like what i have to say
and i will say no more about it here
BUT IT IS TRUE
and you are screwing your child's mind up by living in an emotional minefield!
but i am sure you can rationalize it all away can't you
junkies are good at that
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and have had 20 years of therapy trying to get the angry voices to stop...
it has effected every relationship i have ever had
no i have no children cause i did NOT want to do that to them
but really how can you justify letting a poor helpless baby be expossed to your petty childlike fighting
beleive me it affects them before they ever can verbalize it or show any outside symptoms at all
if your therapist isn't telling you that shit then you are getting hosed
but anyway attack me for defending your child because you won't
i won't make that mistake again here
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you are hopeless
even dumb animals have a protective instinct for their children
you choose to be amused and just let this go on
ps
there is more than one anon. here
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the difference between you and i is that im very open about the things ive done,i dont hide behind an anonymous label.how do you know what junkies go through?do you think i am insulted by being called a junkie,i freely admit that i am a recovered heroin addict with 16 months clean,even though i am clean,i am a junkie.
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good for you for leaving that HELL!
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