WHAT HURTS THE MOST
What hurts the most? Many women would respond with breaking up with a loved boyfriend, some guys may respond with the same about the ending of their relationship. But does that really hurt the most? There is still a chance for you to talk to that person, and that you can see that person again in your lifetime. The separation can be fixed. It is not impossible. They still exist.
What do I think hurts the most? Losing a loved one. When the only thing you have left of them are memories that you try your hardest to hold on to. But in time, the memories fade and you cannot stop it from happening. After a while you find yourself trying to remember what they last said to you? What did their voice sound like? what did they look like? It is something you cannot help, because when someone dies, there is no chance of seeing them around town, or a phone call just to hear that voice. They no longer exist, you cannot touch them or see them. You cannot hold them when you are sad and lonely. Is it enough to talk out loud to them, waiting for a response, that you know you will never get. But you talk anyway. It is your only comfort, hoping that they are listening. In time, you will be glad the way things turned out with a relationship ending. You may possibly find someone new and more loving. You will forget about the relationship in a positive way. But when you loose someone you love, the lose will stick with you for the rest of your life, and it will kill you inside when you try so hard to remember that person.
That is what hurts the most: Forgetting the lost, and knowing that you have done so.