Bite me
Bite me bite me bite me bite me bite me.
I can't believe this stupid situation with Jon is still bothering me. It's just getting ridiculous. I'm sick of defending myself against it, because it obviously isn't getting me anywhere. His latest accusation is that I've succeeded in alienating him from Paul. Yeah, because I'm obviously just a crazy control freak who wants to chase all Paul's friends away. Him and Jon have been friends for years - the only thing I have against him is his pathetic behaviour over this. I've never even met him, and I'm never likely to. I have no reason to try and stop him being friends with Paul. Paul has seen every message and post sent/made by me and Jon, and in witnessing this he's become increasingly pissed off with what Jon's saying to me. I haven't manipulated the situation in any way, I haven't wanted to, and to be honest I don't see how I could have.
He's also accused me of alienating Debs from Paul. Ha. I think he'll find Paul did that all by himself. I think he'll also find it's really none of his business.
He seems to take great exception to me sending him two perfectly polite texts and then two myspace messages about it. Well I'm sorry, but I'm not just going to sit back and let someone spread lies and unfounded judgements about me. Maybe it would be better if I could just ignore it, but I'm not like that. I only sent him the myspace messages because he posted a stupid blog about me - that's not ok, it's immature and unnecesary, and I won't keep quiet and take it.
For some reason he seems to think I've logged into Paul's myspace in order to read aforementioned blog, because I'm not listed as his friend. Hence because I "don't trust Paul enough to let him have his own account", that must mean I set up the fake livejournal. Erm hello, your profile and blog were completely public! (They're not anymore. Oh no, how will I spy on him and his friends now???)
Maybe he should get his goddamn facts straight.
I don't even care about the livejournal thing anymore. He's obviously convinced himself it was me, but so what? I know it wasn't, and Paul knows it wasn't. What's really bothering me is that he thinks he has the right to make personal attacks and comments about my sanity and my relationship with Paul - about which he knows fuck all. I gather he's doing an MA in psychology (yes, the guy's 27 and doing a masters), and seems to think he has my personality and mindset pegged. I assume that's based on this, which I didn't do, and the odd thing Paul's told him when we've had a fight.
Mmmm, what an objective viewpoint. He clearly knows me inside out.
Ok. I really AM done with it this time. I've said all I can say. Jon texted Paul to tell him his "batty girlfriend" was sending him myspace messages, and Paul replied and told Jon how pissed off he is with him, and that they're done as friends. I've told Paul to speak to him about it, because the issue is between me and Jon and I don't want him to lose a supposedly good friend over it. Because I really don't.
They can sort it out between themselves. Let him post whatever idiotic blogs and comments he wants about me. I hope it makes him feel good about himself.
I honestly feel like I'm back in high school :(
Raaarrr. Rant over.
I can't believe this stupid situation with Jon is still bothering me. It's just getting ridiculous. I'm sick of defending myself against it, because it obviously isn't getting me anywhere. His latest accusation is that I've succeeded in alienating him from Paul. Yeah, because I'm obviously just a crazy control freak who wants to chase all Paul's friends away. Him and Jon have been friends for years - the only thing I have against him is his pathetic behaviour over this. I've never even met him, and I'm never likely to. I have no reason to try and stop him being friends with Paul. Paul has seen every message and post sent/made by me and Jon, and in witnessing this he's become increasingly pissed off with what Jon's saying to me. I haven't manipulated the situation in any way, I haven't wanted to, and to be honest I don't see how I could have.
He's also accused me of alienating Debs from Paul. Ha. I think he'll find Paul did that all by himself. I think he'll also find it's really none of his business.
He seems to take great exception to me sending him two perfectly polite texts and then two myspace messages about it. Well I'm sorry, but I'm not just going to sit back and let someone spread lies and unfounded judgements about me. Maybe it would be better if I could just ignore it, but I'm not like that. I only sent him the myspace messages because he posted a stupid blog about me - that's not ok, it's immature and unnecesary, and I won't keep quiet and take it.
For some reason he seems to think I've logged into Paul's myspace in order to read aforementioned blog, because I'm not listed as his friend. Hence because I "don't trust Paul enough to let him have his own account", that must mean I set up the fake livejournal. Erm hello, your profile and blog were completely public! (They're not anymore. Oh no, how will I spy on him and his friends now???)
Maybe he should get his goddamn facts straight.
I don't even care about the livejournal thing anymore. He's obviously convinced himself it was me, but so what? I know it wasn't, and Paul knows it wasn't. What's really bothering me is that he thinks he has the right to make personal attacks and comments about my sanity and my relationship with Paul - about which he knows fuck all. I gather he's doing an MA in psychology (yes, the guy's 27 and doing a masters), and seems to think he has my personality and mindset pegged. I assume that's based on this, which I didn't do, and the odd thing Paul's told him when we've had a fight.
Mmmm, what an objective viewpoint. He clearly knows me inside out.
Ok. I really AM done with it this time. I've said all I can say. Jon texted Paul to tell him his "batty girlfriend" was sending him myspace messages, and Paul replied and told Jon how pissed off he is with him, and that they're done as friends. I've told Paul to speak to him about it, because the issue is between me and Jon and I don't want him to lose a supposedly good friend over it. Because I really don't.
They can sort it out between themselves. Let him post whatever idiotic blogs and comments he wants about me. I hope it makes him feel good about himself.
I honestly feel like I'm back in high school :(
Raaarrr. Rant over.