zaina, i know your father is still very used to doing things the way he was raised, but what would happen if he finds out about your relationship you had with eric? what im really trying to get to is what would happen if you confronted your father about the issue. i know you two have been in countless arguements about his stern nature, but despite it he must know that hes living in a society that carries completely different standards than he desires and that you are as much apart of this (american) heritage as you are arabic culture. And you are grown up and mature enough to the point where you can make decisions for yourself. eric has told me that he would send you away if he were to ever find out about the two of you but honestly he cant. what can he actually do? he doesnt have the power to actually do that or anything else unless you LET him. he must know somewhere in him that hes fucking his relationship up with you and his entire family. and deep down he loves you, but loves not control. you need to be able to express that to him and that he can have his thoughts but if he really loves you then he needs to loosen his death grip on your life and let you learn whats best for you. people dont learn by doing exactly waht they are told. real learning comes from following your own heart and reflection. so if you really want to continue seeing eric i say thats your damn right and fuck your fathers ideas (no disrespect meant toward your father) he can get mad all he wants but you have triple the amount of reason and right to be furious right back at him. You have the right to stand up for yourself and to tell him that its ludacris that you cant date a guy. if you ever want to talk im there for you babe. give me a call if you ever need anything. you know it.
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